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Summer 2026

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It was a summer for the Reser record books. We covered many miles over the past 2.5 months while also taking time to enjoy the season here at home. Because after all, no one does summer better than the Inland Northwest.

Summer 2026 was incredible! We traveled a lot while still having plenty of fun in Spokane.

In the past, I have gone back-and-forth between recapping our summers in chronological form and summarizing them according to themes. However, this year I thought I would do a hybrid approach. I will do a brief rundown of what we did followed by a condensed smattering of themes (just five) that defined our summer.

Our summer got started right away with a trip to Mexico to celebrate our 10th anniversary. My parents gave Sloan and Beau a terrific start to their summer as well by letting them stay with them.

Sound good? Let’s go…

Our summer started once Sloan and Beau finished the school year on June 12. From there, things started off with a bang. Sid and I traveled to Cancun to celebrate our 10th wedding anniversary. The next week the kids attended Catholic Summer Camp. June then concluded with Hoopfest weekend as I served as a court monitor for the 10th time while Sid and the kids volunteered with me once again.

For the third straight year, my family worked together to volunteer at one of the 425 Hoopfest courts. The scorecard depicts the year (2026).

July was busy from the beginning as we opened the month by watching an outdoor movie under the Pavilion at Riverfront Park. Our Fourth of July weekend kicked off with a screening of “Independence Day” in my childhood best friend’s backyard. On the actual holiday we attended the American Heroes Parade in Coeur d’Alene followed by a cookout at my parents’ house and then capped with a fireworks show. A trip to Seattle then ensued that allowed me to mix work with pleasure. I presented at EWU’s Alumni Board meeting and once that concluded our family explored the city, took a ferry to Bellevue, gawked at the gum wall, and attended a Seattle Mariners game.

Happy 250th birthday, America! My family posed for this photo on July 4…it was a great day!

The month of August started in Atlanta for us. Sid and I attended the Engaged Encounter National Convention while my in-laws joined us at the conference hotel and watched the kids. When the convention concluded, we caught more Major League Baseball as we visited Truist Stadium to watch the Atlanta Braves play. We then drove to Myrtle Beach where we spent an incredible week with Sid’s family. Back in Spokane, we celebrated all the wedding anniversaries in my family with a special dinner, spent a day at Q’emlin Park, and had loads of fun during a Sunday at Silverwood.

Sidney and the kids pose for a photo inside The Battery in Atlanta prior to the Braves game.

Wow, I just recapped our summer in three measly paragraphs. That’s pretty good for me, right? But that just covered the major trips and events of the past few months. I would be remiss if I didn’t mention the little things that really made Summer 2026 special. These five themes will help put it in perspective…

Neighborhood Fun – I was delighted that Sloan and Beau found neighborhood friends this year and spent the long summer nights outside with them. The neighborhood basketball court was a safe and engaging congregating place for the youth of Elk Meadows as my two kids routinely joined the fun. Because Sloan and Beau go to a different school than most children in the neighborhood, it can be natural to not reach out. I was heartened to see them make new friendships and go outside their comfort zone.

Perhaps not the best photo to share with the kid on top of the basketball hoop, but the general scene is what a lot of summer nights looked like this year. Beau would play at the basketball court with his neighbor friends (Beau is to the direct right of the red bush in the photo).

Camp! – Another way Beau and Sloan went outside their comfort zone this summer was by attending camp. In addition to Catholic Summer Camp, the kids spent three weeks at day camp presented by Spokane Valley Parks & Rec. They went on field trips, played at parks, and swam in pools. One of the “opportunities” they cherished the most was riding in a school bus—something they don’t do as Catholic school students. While enjoying all of this excitement, they met lots of new friends and were surrounded by camp counselors who were positive and terrific role models.

This year the theme at St. Mary’s (Spokane Valley) Catholic Summer Camp was “Cool Kingdom Party: Mary Leads Me Closer to Jesus.” I promise Beau was more excited for camp than how he looked in this photo 😂. Beyond Vacation Bible School, the kids also went for three weeks at Spokane Valley Parks & Rec day camp.

Pools – The summer was hot so thank goodness for water! I think Sloan and Beau spent more time in the pool this year than any previous summer. From the hotel pools to the county pools to the camp pools to the private pools, it was a good thing that our kids had more than one swimsuit. The culmination of all this swimming came during our theme park trip when we hit up Silverwood’s water park, Boulder Beach. It was here that Beau swam like a fish and showed what the summer in the pool did for his once-weak swimming skills.

Sidney, Sloan, Beau, and cousins splash in the pool during a humid afternoon during our Myrtle Beach trip.

Faith – Fr. Mike Kwiatkowski once told my kids that “We can’t take a vacation from God during summer because he doesn’t take one from us.” We tried our best to follow this guidance. While on the road this summer we attended mass at two different parishes (St. Cecilia – Bainbridge Island, St. John the Evangelist – Atlanta) and one that we used to call our own (St. Andrew – Myrtle Beach). We also spent plenty of time at our home parish but things looked just a little different. After worshipping at a sunrise mass he presided over and attending a special going-away party in his honor, Fr. Jeff Lewis left for his next assignment at the end of June. Fr. Curtis Seidel then took over pastorship of St. Mary on July 1. The transition has been seamless and we are encouraged and impressed by the talents that Fr. Seidel has brought to the table (or perhaps altar? 😂). 

Members of our Young Adult/Young Family group gather around Fr. Jeff Lewis during a going-away party for him in June.

Events – We tried to venture out into the community as much as possible this summer. Our family attended events such as Unity in the Community, Millwood Daze, Summer on the Ave., Cops & Kids, and YMCA Healthy Kids Day. What became plainly obvious is that Spokane is an awesome place to live and raise a family. Speaking of Spokane, I must mention the four Spokane Indians games we attended throughout the summer as another way that we got to connect with this awesome community.

Beau, Sloan, and I pose in a photo booth at the 2026 Spokane YMCA Healthy Kids Day. The “Get the party started” sign was appropriate as this event kicked off our summer in mid-June.

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What can I say? It was another amazing summer. Thanks to Sidney, Sloan, and Beau for packing it to the brim and creating memories that I will always cherish. Although it is always sad to say goodbye to summer, there is comfort in the fact that autumn in the Inland Northwest is just as spectacular. Stay tuned. Don’t Blink.

Attending the 2026 Catholic Engaged Encounter National Convention

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It was four years ago this summer when we accepted an invitation. Our pastor at the time, Fr. Jeff Lewis, asked Sidney and me if we would join the Spokane chapter of Engaged Encounter. The Catholic organization is a ministry that prepares engaged couples for marriage via dynamic retreats. We said yes.

By saying “yes” to an invitation to join a special ministry four years ago, we found ourselves at the 2026 Engaged Encounter National Convention.

Thanks to Fr. Jeff and the people of the Spokane Engaged Encounter community, we were afforded opportunities. Within a year we delivered our first enrichment at a team meeting, within two years we were presenting at retreats, and in January 2025 we were discerned as the local coordinators/leaders for our Spokane community.

This past weekend we took our next step in becoming even more ingrained with this special organization as we attended the Catholic Engaged Encounter National Convention in Atlanta.

Sidney looks into the main ballroom as announcements are made at the 2026 Catholic Engaged Encounter National Convention.

The opportunity to travel to Georgia to attend the convention gave Sid and me the chance to experience the depth and richness of Engaged Encounter. It is an international organization that is doing God’s work by staging impactful retreats every weekend. It was inspiring to see so many couples just like us converge at the Hilton Atlanta Airport to discuss our ministry, share best practices, and celebrate our Catholic faith.

Our weekend was amazing. I have so much to express about our time in Atlanta but to keep this post manageable, I thought I would share five themes from the conference that I will truly never forget.

It was nice to attend an Engaged Encounter event where we didn’t have to speak at but it didn’t stop Sid from acting like she did 😉.

Meeting New People – As I briefly mentioned, the convention gave us the chance to network with others beyond our Spokane community who are deeply involved in Engaged Encounter. We met people from all over the country and beyond who pour their souls into presenting at retreats, navigate the same challenges we do, and desire to keep moving the ministry forward. From small groups to breakout sessions to sharing meals, we had countless chances to meet like-minded and passionate Catholics who want nothing more than to prepare engaged couples for the sacrament of holy matrimony.

Sid participates in a small group conversation about best practices for following up with Engaged Encounter couples who go on retreats with EE ministry members from all across the country.

Paul J. Kim – Let me say this: The trip to Atlanta was worth it just for the sole reason of listening to Paul J. Kim deliver two keynote addresses. The Catholic influencer captured my heart and had me reduced to tears for both talks. His first keynote on Friday night focused specifically on marriage and highlighted how our ministry equips couples for success—both in the short term and long term. He also reminded us that marriage prepares couples for the ultimate wedding feast in Heaven but to stay vigilant because Satan hates marriage (it produces children, among other things) and will do anything to sew discord and chaos.

We had the opportunity to meet Paul J. Kim and he was so kind and down to earth.

His second keynote on Saturday morning was about his son, Micah, who passed away on Dec. 31 at the age of 5. The courage and honesty he summoned to tell us about his son’s sudden and unexpected death followed by the incredible graces that have transpired since his passing had me in awe. If you aren’t following Paul J. Kim on Instagram do yourself a favor and tap here.

With a photo of his son up on the screen, Michael J. Kim mustered up the courage to tell the story of Micah.

Our Friends From Joilet – When everyone checked in at the convention on Friday, we were all given a card with the names of another couple. The charge was to seek that couple out, chat with them, and then write about their strengths. We were paired with Ruben and Veronica Manzanares from the Joilet (Illinois) Engaged Encounter community. Our paths crossed on Saturday morning and not only would we eat lunch with them but we also sat next to each other at the special evening dinner as well. Reuben and Veronica were so kind, humble, and courteous.

Sid and I pose for a photo with Ruben and Veronica Manzanares during lunch at the 2026 Engaged Encounter National Convention in Atlanta.

We might have seemed like opposites: they are Hispanic (we are white), have three adult children (we have two children under 10), and live in the Midwest (we live in the Northwest) but we also had much in common as well. Conversation flowed so effortlessly and we can’t wait to stay in touch with them. When we parted, Ruben told us we were welcome to visit them in Illinois by saying “Mi casa es tu casa.”

At the special dinner on Saturday night, Sid and I walked into the ballroom and sat down at a table. Two seats were saved to the left of me. About 10 minutes after we sat down, Reuben and Veronica Manzanares walked inside and sat down right next to us. They had saved the seats but we had no idea until that moment.

Watching Our Mentors Shine – Fr. Jeff Lewis brought us into the Engaged Encounter ministry but Ric and Cindy Gaunt took us under their wing. The Gaunts encouraged us to become presenters, workshopped our talks, advocated for us to become Spokane local coordinators, and have supported us so much over the past four years. We have even had the pleasure to present with them at two different retreats. Their encouragement has meant a lot for many reasons, including their standing at the national level of EE. For two people who are so well-respected at the top of the organization, it meant a lot that they would go to bat for us.

It was an honor to attend the 2026 Engaged Encounter National Convention with Ric and Cindy Gaunt. What incredible mentors they are.

Let me tell you, it was a joy to see them in their element at the convention. They led region meetings in their role as Northwest leaders, presented to the entire group on priest relations via their national board appointment, and worked behind the scenes to make sure things ran smoothly. Whenever Sid and I would introduce ourselves as the local coordinators of Spokane, the response would typically be an excited, “You must know Ric and Cindy!!” We might be the junior couple, but Sid and I will still unequivocally say that we are very proud of the Gaunts and were impressed by their performance at the convention.

Ric and CIndy Gaunt shined in their national and regional roles at the 2026 Engaged Encounter National Convention.

Time With Sidney – And last but definitely not least, what a blessing this weekend has been for Sid and me as a couple. To spend time together on such a spectacular and meaningful stage has not been lost on us. When we sat down at the beautiful dinner on Saturday night, I looked at my wife and said, “Did you ever think we would be sitting here five years ago?” The answer was a big “NO” as we didn’t even know about Engaged Encounter at the time. We have had so many special and profound moments at this convention that we are so appreciative of. However, nothing will surpass the moment we shared when we prayed together during Paul J. Kim’s Friday night keynote (a close second was slow dancing to “I’ll Be” by Edwin McCain at the convention party 😂). That was a moment I won’t soon forget.

Thanks be to God! What a blessing it was to spend time with Sidney at the 2026 Catholic Engaged Encounter National Convention.

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Sidney and I thank the Convention Planning Team for putting together such an enriching conference. We realize how blessed and lucky we were to attend and can only hope that one day we will return for another Catholic Engaged Encounter National Convention…hopefully in San Antonio in 2028! Until then, with God’s grace, Sid and I will do our best to live our vows everyday while encouraging others to do the same. Don’t Blink.

Peanut Thursday Rundown

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It has been three weeks since my last Thursday Rundown. Our anniversary blog post bumped the rundown on June 11 and then last week we were in Mexico, and…yeah…I wasn’t going to write one then. So after 21 days, here we go with my latest Thursday Rundown…

Father’s Day 2026 – I told Sid I wanted to attend a baseball game for Father’s Day and my wife delivered. On technically the same day we arrived home from our Mexican vacation, we went to Avista Stadium that evening to watch the Spokane Indians host the Vancouver Canadians. It was Bluey Night and Fireworks Night but the most excitement came when the Indians smacked a walk-off home run in extra innings to secure a thrilling victory.

My family took me to the ballgame for Father’s Day. We watched the Spokane Indians defeat the Vancouver Canadians.

Sunrise Mass – Even though Fr. Jeff Lewis is about to move to Walla Walla, he is still doing lots for his current flock at St. Mary. Last Saturday he held a sunrise mass on the parish campus. He started the mass at 4:45 a.m. so the consecration could coincide with the actual specific moment of sunrise. Please pray for Fr. Jeff as he departs for his new assignment at St. Francis of Assisi and Assumption (both in Walla Walla). Earlier this week I published my tribute to Fr. Jeff as well as my family’s top 10 moments with him.

Fr. Jeff Lewis offered a sunrise mass on the St. Mary (Spokane Valley) campus this past Saturday. My bud JJ Nazzaro is shown in this photo with Fr. Jeff.

Peanuts – I love peanuts in all forms and I couldn’t help but laugh when I realized the contents of the lunch I packed on Tuesday. It contained a peanut butter sandwich, salted peanuts, and peanut butter M&Ms. It was a very good thing that no one with a peanut allergy walked into my office at noon that day.

My lunch was high in peanuts/protein earlier this week.

Habitat for Humanity – I want to give a shout out to my wife for serving the community earlier this month. She joined a group of her Traveler’s Insurance co-workers as they went to a worksite to help Habitat for Humanity build a house. If you know my wife, she is spectacular with a hammer and tools, so this work was right down her alley. She enjoyed the experience and wants to do it again. Kudos to Traveler’s for encouraging their employees to take a break from the office to help with a very worthy community project.

Sidney hanging out on a Habitat for Humanity job site with her Traveler’s co-workers.

June 25 – A lot of really great things happened on this date. Most importantly, Sloan was baptized nine years ago at St. Andrew Catholic Church in Myrtle Beach. Hard to believe she has already received the sacraments of Reconciliation, Confirmation, and First Eucharist. On this date four years ago, I played with my siblings and sister-in-law on a Hoopfest team. Rewind three years ago and that was when my St. Mary Hoopfest team cruised through the loser’s bracket to the championship game where we would fall just a little short. And then on June 25, 2024, I interviewed at Eastern Washington University. Needless to say, that last memory turned out well.

Sloan was baptized at St. Andrew Catholic Church in Myrtle Beach on June 25, 2017.

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I could have kept going with five additional topics since it has been 21 days but I have to stay true to the Thursday Rundown format. Let’s hope that the rain stays away this weekend…I will provide more information next week. Don’t Blink.

Our Top 10 Favorite Fr. Jeff Lewis Moments

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Tap here to read my tribute to Fr. Jeff Lewis

How do you know if you were blessed with a one-of-a-kind priest? Aside from getting you closer to Heaven (😇), I would have to say the answer is obvious if you can easily recount 10 memorable moments from your time together.

Fr. Jeff Lewis fits that bill and then some. Because to be honest, it was almost impossible to choose just 10 moments from the past six years with Fr. Jeff. However, I did my best.

If you want my final tribute to Fr. Jeff go here, but if you just want the quick rundown of some really good times, please read on…

10. A Parting Gift – After the news of Fr. Jeff’s transfer was official, he reached out to as many parishioners as possible to schedule final get-togethers prior to his departure. Fr. Jeff paired our family’s last hurrah with our dear friends, the Perrys. During our dinner, Fr. Jeff presented each family with a piece of art. He gave us an Ascension-themed stained glass piece, noting that he thought of Sloan when deciding to pass it on to us. For him to give us a gift at all—let alone one that was filled with thought and from his own collection—was pretty special.

Fr. Jeff Lewis presents Sidney with a suncatcher depicting the Ascension during our dinner with him and the Perrys at Hops N Drops in June 2026.

9. Movie Star – Back in 2023, I was asked to create a surprise video for Sloan’s kindergarten teacher (Jordan Hoard) who was getting married. I decided to have Sloan and her classmates give advice to the then-Miss Roff on how to achieve a successful marriage. But for the video to have optimal impact and credibility, it needed star power. Fr. Jeff is always a good sport and down for anything, so he graciously agreed to appear in it.

A screenshot from the video that Fr. Jeff helped us make by appearing in it. I worked on a video that congratulated Mrs. Jordan Hoard on getting married and had her then-kindergarten class offering their marriage advice.

8. Softball Championship – Back in the summer of 2022, Fr. Jeff challenged our Young Adult group to establish a St. Mary softball program. One of our fellow charter couples of the Young Adult group, Brian and Hailey Eames, took lead. They organized a tournament with our brothers and sisters from the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints for that August. After a few weeks of practice, we played on the Mormon fields on a sunny Saturday morning. The tournament consisted of three LDS teams and our sole Catholic team. We easily won our first game to advance to the championship where we claimed the title with an 8-7 victory. After the game, we had a big cookout as both Catholics and Mormons came together for fellowship. Fr. Jeff’s vision would go beyond that debut weekend as St. Mary softball was “a thing” for a couple more summers.

A few photos from the day our St. Mary team won the softball championship. Sid and I got to play together on a sports team that was pretty cool. Fr. Jeff can be seen in the photo from the picnic that was held immediately after our victory.

7. House Blessings – Fr. Jeff cheerfully came to our home to bless our house on two different occasions. He first performed the rite when we moved into our rental shortly after we arrived in Spokane. He would then come again once we purchased our own home. Both evenings were lively and comforting as we would eat dinner and then Fr. Jeff would take his spray bottle filled with holy water and visit each room while also applying holy oils. We were grateful that Fr. Jeff never hesitated to do the blessings and always made them fun and educational for the kids.

Fr. Jeff Lewis with us after our first house blessing in 2021.

6. Sunrise Mass – I had the blessing of worshipping at a couple different sunrise masses that Fr. Jeff celebrated. My favorite was in June 2025 when we hiked Iller Creek in the Dishman Hills of Spokane Valley. Our group met at the trailhead at 4 a.m. and hiked to a spot that overlooked the Palouse. Fr. Jeff then said mass and timed it perfectly so that the sunrise was at its full glory during the consecration. What a moving and holy experience!

Fr. Jeff Lewis led a hike up the Iller Creek trail for a sunrise mass in June 2025.

5. Dinner With the Bishop – If you have ever tried to get on Bishop Thomas Daly’s calendar, you know how impossible it seems at times. So I don’t know how he managed it, but Fr. Jeff somehow got the Bishop to attend dinner with our Young Adult group. There was no agenda and no “ask” during the visit, Fr. Jeff just wanted us to enjoy the presence of Bishop Daly while showing the Bishop a thriving and strong community that developed during the pandemic when we were starving for Catholic fellowship.

Our Young Adult Catholic group surrounds Bishop Thomas Daly (center, with hands in pockets) in June 2022.

4. Marriage Prep Celebrations – Early on during our time at St. Mary, Fr. Jeff approached Sid and me about serving in a “mentor couple” role to engaged couples enrolled in marriage prep. We enthusiastically accepted and over the past handful of years we have worked with eight different engaged couples through a six-lesson program called “Beloved.” At the end of the sixth lesson, we would convene with the couple and Fr. Jeff at a restaurant (usually the De Leon location at Sullivan and Sprague) to debrief the engaged couple’s experience and to look forward to their wedding day. These dinners were always so positive, casual, and enjoyable. You wouldn’t believe how great Fr. Jeff does with these young couples!

Photos with us, Fr. Jeff, and some of the engaged couples we have been blessed to work with over the years.

3. WSU Football Game – One thing you should know about Fr. Jeff is that he is a huge WSU Fan—which makes sense because he earned his bachelor’s degree and master’s degree from the school. Back in November 2023, we tagged along with Fr. Jeff, Jeremy Cassidy, Amy Martin, and the Perrys to Pullman for a Friday night Washington State University football game. Prior to heading to the stadium, we all visited WSU’s Newman Center. Fr. Paul Heric gave us a tour and we tailgated in the parking lot. The Cougs crushed the University of Colorado that evening in Deion Sanders’ first season with the team.

Fr. Jeff Lewis and members of our Young Adult group went to a WSU football game in November 2023.

2. Presenting With Fr. Jeff at Engaged Encounter Retreats – As its chaplain, Fr. Jeff extended an offer to Sid and me to join a ministry called Engaged Encounter (totally separate from the “mentor couple” opportunity mentioned above). The main goal of the organization is to stage retreats for engaged couples getting married in the Catholic Church. During the retreats, two couples and a priest give a series of presentations throughout the weekend. Sid and I would ascend from newcomers to presenters to the leaders of the Spokane Engaged Encounter chapter. During our EE journey over the past four years, we have had the honor of teaming up with Fr. Jeff on two retreat weekends. I like to think we work together pretty well! It meant a lot that Fr. Jeff invited us into the ministry just to begin with but it has been a blessing for us to collaborate in our leadership roles together (when Fr. Jeff transfers to Walla Walla he will resign from his role as EE chaplain).

Sid and I stand with Natalie Schroeder, Joe Schroeder, and Fr. Jeff Lewis. We served as the ministry team at the May 2026 Spokane Catholic Engaged Encounter weekend that took place at the Immaculate Heart Retreat Center. We feel so blessed that Fr. Jeff invited us to join the ministry.

1. 2023 Hoopfest Weekend – Out of all the special moments with Fr. Jeff, our Hoopfest run in 2023 is at the top of my list. St. Mary sponsored our team which included fellow parishioners/Young Adult group members Amy Martin, JJ Nazzaro, and Ryan Andrade. Fr. Jeff was with us the entire weekend from the initial bus ride downtown to our finalist photos on Sunday afternoon. Despite losing our first game, we would cruise through the loser’s bracket to make the championship. Fr. Jeff led us in prayer prior to each game, cheered us on, and served us admirably in his role as team chaplain. But the best part of all was just hanging out with him throughout the course of the weekend and watching him minister to the thousands of people downtown. You would not believe all the people who called out “FATHER” to him throughout the weekend. For me, it was an experience that encompassed both friendship and evangelization—something that I will never forget.

The weekend we spent with Fr. Jeff at Hoopfest 2023 is one I will never forget. People in this photo include (from l-r) JJ Nazzaro, Amy Martin, Fr. Jeff Lewis, me, and Ryan Andrade.

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Wow. That’s a lot for under six years. I think it goes without saying that when you have so many big moments with a priest, it by default makes them your favorite priest, right? What a blessing to have Fr. Jeff Lewis become such an important influence on our family and contribute so many memories that we will forever look back fondly on.

For those Walla Walla families who are parishioners at either Assumption or St. Patrick, I hope you enjoy similar moments with Fr. Jeff. You are getting an absolute treasure. Don’t Blink.

Our Priest: Fr. Jeff Lewis

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Our Guy

Let me get right to the point: Fr. Jeff Lewis was the exact person my family needed when he entered our lives.

Fr. Jeff Lewis was the exact person my family needed in 2020.

When we met him for the first time in the St. Mary vestibule, we—and the world—were in a period of transition. It was the summer of 2020 and the Diocese of Spokane had just resumed in-person masses as the pandemic lingered. Our family had recently moved across the country and we were trying to gather our bearings. I had started a new job at Washington State University, Sidney was becoming accustomed to her role as a stay-at-home mom, Sloan was adjusting to life without her South Carolina grandparents, and Beau was a newborn.

We were also in a faith transition as well. Shortly before leaving Myrtle Beach and just days prior to the pandemic rocking our nation, Sidney had converted to Catholicism in a beautiful ceremony in which Beau was baptized as well. The momentum was on our side that February day but COVID would try to seize any spiritual gains my family had made over the coming months.

Thanks be to God, Fr. Jeff wasn’t going to let us slip through the cracks.

Meeting Fr. Jeff Lewis was an absolute blessing when we moved to Spokane. This was one of our first photos with him. It was taken at our house blessing in 2021.

The Seeds of Friendship

It didn’t take long for us to become acquainted with Fr. Jeff’s outgoing and humorous personality. The first time we met him in that vestibule, he quizzed us about what side of Pines Rd. we lived on. When we told him our house was situated on the side of the road that should have placed us in the jurisdiction of another parish, he assured us that he would take us anyway…just as long as we didn’t tell the other pastor.

When we returned the following week, Fr. Jeff remembered us. He cracked a joke about Beau being a football player due to the helmet therapy he was undergoing at the time to correct his misshapen head. Yep, we quickly learned that Fr. Jeff was a priest who wouldn’t shy away from injecting humor into a potentially delicate situation…and we loved him for it.

Those first personable and lighthearted encounters with Fr. Jeff would set the stage for a six-year friendship that would catapult us into ministry life within the Spokane Diocese, introduce us to some of the best people we have ever met, and, most importantly, energize the Catholic faith of our family.

By meeting Fr. Lewis, we would become very involved at St. Mary and the diocese at large while meeting amazing people.

An Endearing Style

Once we got past the vestibule and into the sanctuary, we quickly learned the reverent—yet welcoming—way that Fr. Jeff celebrated mass. From the way he held his hands in prayerful posture to the thorough way he cleaned the sacred vessels to the St. Michael prayer he led prior to the recessional, Fr. Jeff was always dialed in and deeply devoted to the holiness of the mass.

Fr. Jeff receives the gifts from Sloan during a St. Mary School mass. It didn’t matter if he was saying mass at the Cathedral or mass for the students, Fr. Jeff always did it reverently.

When it came to his preaching style, we always appreciated how prepared he was. He wrote his homilies and preached them from behind the lectern. Although different from the more spontaneous approach of his St. Mary predecessor, Fr. Jeff packed plenty of relatability and humor into his weekly Sunday addresses to the congregation. His self-deprecating humor combined with his signature “HA!” he would exclaim after telling a joke made him endearing to many.

Outside of mass and in the public view, he could mostly be found wearing a collar, oftentimes paired with his cassock. With his tall frame, he stuck out like a sore (or holy?) thumb. I always felt privileged and inspired to be around him during these times because people would call out “FATHER!” and flock to him. It became so plainly obvious how much priests are needed and the beacon of hope they provide—to Catholics and non-Catholics alike.

It was always fun to be with Fr. Jeff in public as people would flock to him. During Hoopfest 2023 we spent the entire weekend with him, including when we rode the STA bus downtown. You wouldn’t believe all the people who approached him over those two days,

Needless to say, Fr. Jeff was the perfect example of priestly humility and approachability for our family. Totally devout yet totally an everyday guy, he was a role model in every sense of the phrase.

Fr. Jeff Lewis would become a trusted friend to Sid & me and an incredible role model to Sloan and Beau.

A Game Changer

Because of Fr. Jeff’s friendly demeanor and non-holier-than-thou attitude, people gravitated to him—including our family. Within the first couple months of us attending St. Mary, something in the bulletin caught our eye. It was an invitation to join a new young adult group. A joint venture between Fr. Jeff and his good friend and fellow Spokane Valley priest, Fr. Kevin Oiland, I signed Sid and me up that night.

Our Young Adult Catholic group proved to be invaluable to our family. It grew pretty quickly and thanks to Fr. Jeff it wasn’t long before Bishop Thomas Daly joined all of us for a special dinner.

Our first meeting took place at Arbor Crest, a Spokane-area winery with beautiful grounds and spectacular views. I might have pinched myself thinking how blessed I was to be in the presence of two priests who took a genuine interest in me as we enjoyed nature and drank wine.

That initial meeting was only the beginning. Each ensuing bi-weekly encounter proved to be richer than the previous. Fr. Jeff would divide the time between socializing, discussing a specific topic, and prayer. Other young adult couples joined and it didn’t take long before our group transformed into family.

We were one of the three original couples of the Valley Young Adult group. This is us with Fr. Jeff and Brian & Hailey Eames (not pictured: Ryan and Allyson Andrade).

This young adult group would stick together for the remainder of Fr. Jeff’s time at St. Mary. The constant throughout the entire 5.5 years? Fr. Jeff. He constantly evolved the group, tweaked the schedule as necessary, and kept showing up even when it seemed like busy lives and growing families might dissolve it.

Our Young Adult group forged unbreakable bonds thanks to Fr. Jeff. The Andrades, the other charter couple part of “the original three,” became our dear friends. They asked us to be the godparents of their son, Noble. (l-r) Ryan Andrade, Allyson Andrade, Sidney Reser, Noble Andrade, Brent Reser, and Fr. Jeff Lewis.

Building Friendship

By joining the young adult group, we made best friends with like-minded couples. If that was all that came from our decision to answer that bulletin ad, I would say we were beyond blessed. But we actually received so much more.

Members of our Young Adult/Young Family group gather around Fr. Jeff Lewis during a going-away party for him. Even up to his last week at St. Mary, he still made time for our special Young Adult/Young Family community.

The group also gave us regular access to our rather tall parish priest 😉. Because we were around and I guess seemingly normal (debatable for me, I know), Fr. Jeff gave us opportunities in St. Mary and diocesan ministries. He asked us to become a marriage prep mentor couple and he also invited us to join the Spokane Engaged Encounter ministry. He commonly gave us the opportunity to bring down the gifts at mass, sought us out for our opinions on various matters, and asked us to make certain newcomers to the parish feel welcome.

Little did we know that by accepting Fr. Jeff Lewis’ invite to join the Engaged Encounter ministry that we would be discerned as the Spokane leaders just a few years later. Some of the best times with Fr. Jeff have been presenting with him at Engaged Encounter retreats. Sid and I stand with Natalie Schroeder, Joe Schroeder while Fr. Jeff stands in the middle. We served as the ministry team at the May 2026 Spokane Catholic Engaged Encounter weekend that took place at the Immaculate Heart Retreat Center.

But for as much as we tried to answer “yes” to Fr. Jeff, he naturally did so much more for us. Aside from readily giving us the sacraments when needed, he always went above and beyond. Whether it was blessing our house (twice!), answering our text messages, unlocking parish meetings rooms for us, or appearing in videos, he always cheerfully helped us out. I don’t even know how many times I opened our mailbox to see a card from Fr. Jeff indicating an upcoming date when he would say a mass for our family. Or the special times he would invite me and other men in the parish to the rectory for cigars and discussion.

Fr. Jeff Lwwis takes a photo with our family after he blessed our house in 2023. He blessed the house we rented in 2021 as well.

We will never forget the way he treated our children. Never too busy to playfully banter with Sloan or hold out his hand for a high five from Beau, we couldn’t have asked for a better role model. When Fr. Jeff told us the Bishop was transferring him, we knew we would have to drop the news very delicately to the kids. That was a tough conversation.

Outside our family, Beau and Sloan could not have had a better person in their lives than Fr. Jeff Lewis.

The kids weren’t the only ones who took it hard. Even though I prepped Sidney for the past few years that Catholic priests don’t stay at a parish forever and that Fr. Jeff would probably leave St. Mary soon, his announcement still rattled my wife. She waited a few days before she could gather herself to tell Fr. Jeff how much she would miss him.

Sid and Fr. Jeff Lewis were tight.

It’s hard when friends leave.

A Priest on the Rise

As we became friends with Fr. Jeff on a personal level, it was gratifying to see him succeed on a professional level. St. Mary is a very large parish with very diverse parishioners. No matter what decision you make or how you celebrate mass, seemingly a segment of the congregation will take issue. Incredibly, Fr. Jeff effectively embraced an approach that attracted traditionalists to the parish while not alienating those with an affinity for Vatican II reform. He talked about this fine line often with our young adult group and was very cognizant of the ramifications of leaning too far one way—and he navigated it beautifully.

The way he lovingly and strategically ran the parish showed in the pews. Weekend mass attendance has soared and is back at pre-pandemic levels. But it just isn’t the church that is thriving. St. Mary Catholic School, which Fr. Jeff oversees, is also a beacon of health. Knowing the need for strong, Catholic-centered leadership, Fr. Jeff took what some might have perceived as a gamble and hired a teacher from a public school district to serve as principal. The hire of Stephen Hart might very well be one of the best decisions Fr. Jeff made during his tenure at St. Mary.

Stephen Hart stands by Fr. Jeff Lewis as he blesses a religious item for Beau. Hiring Stephen as principal of St. Mary Catholic School was one of the best things Fr. Jeff ever did.

With Fr. Jeff doing a stellar job with his localized parish assignment, he also garnered attention at the diocesan and even national levels as well. From a stint helping Bishop Daly with personnel assignments to appearing in Inland Catholic to making regular appearances on Tom Curran’s radio program, Fr. Jeff made himself known to the Catholic community of eastern Washington.

However, Fr. Jeff became known outside the state as well. In 2024 he gave a talk at our country’s most popular Catholic conference—SEEK. What pride many of us at St. Mary felt as our pastor spoke to an esteemed national audience about the evangelization program he introduced at our parish. His ambitious plan earned him attention from major Catholic personalities as he spent time at Edward Siri’s house and attended a private meet-and-greet with then-FOCUS CEO Curtis Martin when he visited Spokane in 2025.

Fr. Jeff Lewis speaks at SEEK in 2024.

No doubt about it, Fr. Jeff’s influence was felt far beyond the St. Mary campus over the past six years.

Fr. Jeff Lewis has lit the world on fire with his ministry (this photo was taken at a sunrise mass he took several of us on in June 2025).

Staying Humble

Although Fr. Jeff might joke about future titles (Cardinal Lewis) or assignments from Rome, don’t think for a second that his successful ministry has gone to his head. Because no matter how well-known his name becomes outside of the Catholic Diocese of Spokane, he is still committed to his flock at the localized parish level.

Fr. Jeff Lewis would present at SEEK but still love to do nothing more than preside over a Mary Crowning ceremony (Sloan and Claire Hart help Fr. Jeff out).

We know this firsthand. Even though he is the pastor of a large parish and is known to the Catholic World outside the state of Washington, he has still made time for a very normal family like ours. Whether that has manifested itself in going to a football game together, coming over for dinner, or openly debating me about the merits of digital media to promote good, he has always made time for us.

Fr. Jeff Lewis and members of our Young Adult group went to a WSU football game in November 2023.

And we are hardly alone. Fr. Jeff has given this attention to countless other “very normal” St. Mary families. We often joke that he doesn’t need to cook at the rectory because he is always over at a parishioner’s house for dinner. If there is anyone who has a stereotypical idea of a priest being an aloof, egocentric hermit, they have never met Fr. Jeff.

It must also to be said that he shows up to everything. From Family Faith Nights to Knights of Columbus meetings to turkey bingo to school sporting events, Fr. Jeff prioritizes it all (now is definitely the time to enter a Padre Pio reference about bi-locating). There is no event too small or insignificant for this truly humble priest.  

Fr. Jeff plays some Bingo with us at a Knights of Columbus event. (photo courtesy of Carl Lockwood).

Legacy

Inside the St. Mary vestibule is a nursing room. The exterior wall of the nursing room displays the rich history of the parish as portraits of past St. Mary priests hang. Soon, Fr. Jeff’s picture will move from the spot designated for the current pastor to the space reserved for those whose vocations have taken them elsewhere. As the years pass and a new generation of St. Mary parishioners settle in our church, there is no doubt that their attention will settle upon the portrait of Fr. Jeff. If it isn’t me, I am sure someone else will be on-hand to educate our newcomers on the lasting impact made by the tall, bespectacled man in the photo.

This wall inside St. Mary Catholic Church (Spokane Valley) depicts the photos of all pastors of St. Mary. Fr. Jeff Lewis’ photo will glow for a long time.

Fr. Jeff will be remembered for a long and successful seven-year ministry at St. Mary. History will note that he ushered the parish through the pandemic and somehow made it even stronger in the ensuing post-virus years. While he enforced necessary safety protocols and took COVID seriously, he also didn’t allow it to cripple his vocation—he was one of the only priests within the diocese who made hospital visits during the pandemic. The way he handled such a turbulent time in our history will be commended.

Fr. Jeff Lewis led St. Mary with compassion and faith during a very uncertain time (photo courtesy of Allyson Andrade).

The way he approached envangelization will be remembered. Taking the FOCUS model and launching his 50,000-soul challenge by urging each St. Mary parishioner to reach out to two non-practicing people was bold. Speaking of FOCUS, the way he incorporated the ministry into the parish—to the point of adding two missionaries to our community—was innovative. Known for ministering on college campuses, Fr. Jeff saw that the FOCUS approach could be effective and scalable at the parish level as well.

No doubt his influence on young people will be remembered. The positive impact he had on St. Mary School can’t be overstated. He made a slam dunk principal hire with Stephen Hart and then actively partnered with him to provide a school that offered a challenging, empowering, and authentically Catholic education. Fr. Jeff had a profound impact on the youth group program as he put the right leaders in place and attended every gathering he could. The freedom he gave Marie Bricher to do “crazy things” (her words) to engage children at events such as Catholic Summer Camp and Family Faith Nights won’t be forgotten and hopefully carried on by the incoming pastor.

Fr. Jeff Lewis showed up to EVERYTHING…including any event that catered to the youth. This is a photo from a Family Faith night where he partnered with Sloan in a demonstration.

For years to come, the beautiful sanctuary we now have will also be part of Fr. Jeff’s legacy. Thanks to his leadership the worship space was completely transformed. Among other things, a new altar was brought in and a crucifix added. Additionally, although the execution phase and ribbon cutting will be past his time, Fr. Jeff will be credited with actually putting into place plans for a new parish hall and school.

The way Fr. Jeff led the charge the beautify the sanctuary space behind us in this picture will continue to be appreciated by many.

And I could go on and on. But let me summarize when it comes to Fr. Jeff’s legacy at St. Mary: he was a priest with BIG ideas who put them into practice while both shepherding and empowering his flock.

Perhaps this photo of Fr. Jeff Lewis throwing his head back and laughing is a better indicator of the legacy he will leave behind than anything I could put into words.

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Little did my family know the role that Fr. Jeff would play in our lives when we met him for that first time nearly six years ago. That initial conversation in the St. Mary vestibule would lead to our inclusion in a Catholic community that profoundly changed our lives for the better.

Sloan and Beau take a photo with Fr. Jeff Lewis after he concluded his last school mass on June 12, 2026.

It has been a blessing to not just watch Fr. Jeff thrive at his vocation but to personally benefit from it as well. His earthly legacy at St. Mary will shine brightly for years to come but eventually that light will dim as the decades go on and people forget. However, the fruit he has helped produce through the grace of God in the souls of himself and others will hopefully have eternal lasting power.

We will simply miss the times our group of friends would gather around a table with Fr. Jeff Lewis and talk about life, hot topics, and God.

Thank you, Fr. Jeff. You have been the best priest, an incredible influence on my children, and an inspiring leader. You have also been a dear friend. I look forward to following your ministry from afar as I know you will do special things in Walla Walla. My family is praying for you and we will miss you very much. Don’t Blink.

Tap here to read my family’s top 10 moments with Fr. Jeff Lewis

St. Mary 2025-26: It Takes a Community

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I know I am a few years late using this phrase, but Sloan and Beau understood the assignment! Today they concluded the 2025-26 school year and are now on summer break.

The 2025-26 St. Mary Catholic School year came to a close this morning. Students, staff, and Fr. Jeff huddled together for this photo after mass (photo courtesy of Paolo Davila de Muela).

This recently completed school year, our sixth at St. Mary Catholic School, was a success. Not because our kids were perfect (they weren’t), not because Sloan was immune from drama (she wasn’t), and not because Beau was a perfect angel (don’t make me laugh), but because there was obvious growth—from both an academic, social, and spiritual standpoint.

Sloan and Beau pose for a photo inside St. Mary Catholic Church (Spokane Valley) during 2026 Catholic Schools Week. They weren’t perfect this school year but they did experience growth.

Sloan wrote book reports, learned multiplication and division, played basketball, joined the chess club, read her Catholic School Week essay at mass, and continued to forge close relationships with her very tight-knit class.

Sloan had a good third grade year.

Beau learned the basics of reading, tackled homework for the first time, endeared himself to his classmates, took a turn as star student of the week, and masterfully read the responsorial psalm at a recent school mass.

It was awesome to see Beau make strides in reading this year.

But the thing that makes St. Mary such a special school is that it is never about the individual performance of any one student—it is about the community as a whole.

And trust me, what I just wrote isn’t a hollow statement. I observed firsthand the pride and care that exists within the walls of St. Mary as I served on the 2025-26 School Advisory Council (SAC) with select school staff members and a handful of other parents. We discussed issues facing the school, opportunities for improvement, and proactive ideas to implement. The genuine desire to continually advance the school is inspiring and I was so impressed by the staff members who would stay long after the school day concluded to attend these meetings. Mrs. Kathy Olsen, Mrs. Devon Rapp, Mrs. Sharon Lonergan, and Mr. Kevin Schultz—you are all AMAZING!

I am heartened by how the St. Mary staff members support Sloan and Beau.

Don’t think I forgot about the individual who chairs SAC. Principal Stephen Hart did a fabulous job leaning into the expertise of each person on the committee—staff member and parent alike—to uncover the best ideas and guidance.

I snapped this photo of Mr. Stephen Hart when he opened the doors of St. Mary Catholic School (Spokane Valley) to begin the 2025-26 school year. Today he closed those doors on a successful year.

But let me make an overall assessment of Mr. Hart and his impact at St. Mary: It isn’t an accident that the school is devotedly Catholic, enrollment keeps climbing, test scores are superb, and that BIG plans are on the horizon. Stephen’s leadership has transformed the school community over the past three years and we couldn’t be in better hands.

And to think that Mr. Hart could still be in the public school system if a certain person didn’t make a somewhat unconventional hire at the end of the 2022-23 school year…

Today, Fr. Jeff Lewis said his last school mass at St. Mary (Spokane Valley). The kids got a photo with him afterwards.

As we say goodbye to Fr. Jeff Lewis as he leaves for his new assignment in Walla Walla, there is no doubt that his work with the school will be part of his outstanding and expansive legacy at St. Mary. Aside from his slam dunk principal hire, he made consistent/legendary visits to the classrooms, presided over beautiful school masses, and did whatever humanely possible to assist with fundraising. He worked great with Mr. Hart and always did what was in the best interest of the school. We will miss him dearly.

Fr. Jeff Lewis receives the gifts from Sloan during a St. Mary School mass. He always did an incredible job with the students.

Finally, my admiration for what we have going at St. Mary doesn’t just extend to the students, staff, principal, or even Fr. Jeff. I am also continually impressed with my fellow parents. Make no mistake about it, at any private school the moms, dads, and guardians can have an oversized influence—for better or worse. Of course, no matter where you go, any school will probably have a mix of both…St. Mary is no different. But I believe the positivity overwhelmingly outweighs the negativity and some of that evidence can be found in the parents of the third grade and kindergarten classes.

Beau poses with his kindergarten teacher, Mrs. Kristen Mead, this morning. Mrs. Mead is not only a St. Mary teacher but a St. Mary parent as well. In fact, she is one of the third grade parents in Sloan’s class.

Some of the moms and dads in Sloan’s class (and their kids) have been around since we started her in Pre-K3 six years ago. The students in the third grade class are extremely close and that bond extends to us parents as well. I am constantly amazed at how supportive they are not just of the school but of my kids (Beau, too). I watch as many of these parents invest heavily in both their time and money to bolster St. Mary Catholic School…it blows me away.

The third grade class is close and it extends from the students to the parents as well. It was extremely special that Sloan and her classmates made their First Communion/Confirmation together this year.

Then we have the parents in Beau’s class. Sid and I have had the chance to get to know many of them better over this school year (hello birthday party circuit! 😂) and I am really impressed by their energy and passion. There are parents in that class who are going to spearhead some major projects that will keep the school’s current momentum for years to come. But aside from the big picture, my heart is warmed by how quickly the parents in Beau’s class volunteer and lift each other up. Oh, and the way they showed up at this year’s school auction was the stuff of legends.

Beau’s kindergarten class has a lot of energy…both the students and the parents.

The summer is now upon us and I hope the entire school community is looking forward to some well-deserved rest and relaxation. As Fr. Jeff said in his final St. Mary School homily this morning, it would serve us all well to enter into friendship with Jesus over the break. When the 2026-27 school year starts on Aug. 31, things will look a little different with Fr. Curtis Seidel overseeing the school and some new teachers roaming the halls. But as I have alluded to throughout this post, the foundation for saint-making has been set and the sky…I mean Heaven…is the limit 🙏🏻. Thanks be to God. Don’t Blink.

Closed Thursday Rundown

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Thursday always seems to come sooner when preceded by a Monday holiday. Tonight’s Thursday Rundown will be my last of the month so let’s send May out with a bang…

Fr. Jeff’s 15th Ordination Anniversary – Our family priest marked his 15th anniversary of his ordination this week. That’s right, Fr. Jeff Lewis has now been part of the priesthood for a decade and a half. We have enjoyed celebrating Fr. Jeff’s ordination anniversary (here and here) over the years and this latest one was bittersweet as he will leave St. Mary next month for an assignment in Walla Walla.

Fr. Jeff Lewis celebrated his 15th ordination anniversary on May 26. We celebrated the milestone with him at our young family group meeting.

Family Faith Night – Speaking of Fr. Jeff, he was in attendance with us last night at the final St. Mary Family Faith Night of the year. The theme centered on different Catholic religious orders, a topic that was of great interest to me. It is a gift from God that priests and others are able to live out their vocations under special spiritual missions. Once again, the evening was a complete masterpiece thanks to the organization, thought, and creativity of Marie Bricher.

Beau yells something at Fr. Jeff Lewis as we “try” to listen to Marie Bricher during the last Family Faith Night of the school year on May 27, 2026. The topic/theme centered on different Catholic religious orders.

Flight 509 – I felt for the Spokane business community when Flight 509 announced its closure on Tuesday night. The entertainment center is closing after just two years in business. Those owners poured a lot of money, time, and effort into making Flight 509 a clean and fun place with all the bells and whistles. It truly had everything from laser tag to a ropes course to bumper cars to bowling lanes to robots who delivered pizza. Even the adults felt at home with a swanky bar and large TVs. The kids did receive Flight 509 gift cards for Christmas so we will be making one final trip before the business closes its doors to the public on June 13.

Flight 509 was fun. Photos are from our first ever visit and from when we found free passes in a geocache. I thought Flight 509 did excellent community outreach. It is sad to see them close.

Hard Mt. Dew – Normally I wouldn’t purchase something like this, but I wanted to enjoy a fun beverage with my brother before we headed to the Ron White show this past Saturday. On my way to his house, I stopped at a convenient store and couldn’t help but reach into the cooler for two of the Hard Mt. Dew Baja Blasts. When I handed one of the cans to Glen with a mile-wide grin, he knew he had no choice but to indulge with me. It tasted pleasant and tropical but much to my dismay it contained no caffeine. That was a head scratcher to me. How could any Mt. Dew beverage—alcoholic or virgin—not have any caffeine? Anyway, it was definitely a change from the rare light beer I drink every now and then.

Cheers! Glen and I hold the Hard Mt. Dews we drank before the Ron White show.

National Hamburger Day – Today is a big day in Americana as it is National Hamburger Day. I wrote my ode to the burger two years ago on this date that I felt served as my mic drop when it comes to our nation’s favorite food. But if you are still hungry for more, I once wrote about my top five favorite hamburger toppings, the freshest hamburger I ever ate, and one of the most unique hamburgers I ever ordered. Hope you celebrate with a burger tonight!

I love a good burger. Happy National Hamburger Day!

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Hope everyone has a great weekend. June will be here on Monday as it will kickoff what promises to be a very busy and memorable month for Sid and me. Don’t Blink.

Crowded/Glorious Engaged Encounter Retreat

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This past weekend, Sidney and I presented at another Spokane Catholic Engaged Encounter retreat. It marked the fifth retreat that we have given since we joined the ministry in 2022 and the third since we were discerned as the community leaders in 2025.

The couples from the May 2026 Spokane Catholic Engaged Encounter retreat flash their certificates of completion.

This latest retreat was particularly noteworthy for a few reasons. First, we had 22 couples join us, a record for a post-COVID retreat. At the Immaculate Heart Retreat Center they had to change the seating configuration from a length-optimized setup to a width-optimized setup because of the sheer number of attending couples. We even had to speak into microphones because of the volume of people and the increased area of space we took up compared to an average retreat.

After mass on Saturday night, I ran up to the loft and took a photo of the 22 couples plus Sid, Fr. Jeff Lewis, and the Schroeders. The May 2026 Spokane Catholic Engaged Encounter retreat was memorable for the outstanding attendance we had.

Another unique aspect to this retreat was the addition of two other couples on top of the 22 who had already registered. In the Tri-Cities area of Washington State, the Catholic community down there is trying to bring its own Engaged Encounter ministry to fruition. Because of this, two couples from the group attempting to launch an EE presence came up to observe how we give retreats. It was fun to show them what we do and the teamwork needed to pull off a weekend. They were impressed.

We got to take the retreat outside on Saturday morning for a Spokane Catholic Engaged Encounter tradition known as the “Yes/No game.”

And most significantly, this retreat will forever stick out because it was the last one that Fr. Jeff Lewis presided over as the Spokane Catholic Engaged Encounter chaplain. For years he has been the lead priest on our ministry team but that all changed a couple weeks ago when Bishop Daly announced new priestly assignments. Fr. Jeff was impacted in the announcement as the bishop named him pastor of Assumption Parish and St. Francis of Assisi Parish in Walla Walla, WA. Because he will now be three hours away from Spokane, he had to step down from his role as EE chaplain. However, I think we sent him out on a high note with so many couples in attendance and a retreat that went as smoothly as you could hope.

Sid and I stand with Natalie Schroeder, Joe Schroeder, and Fr. Jeff Lewis. We served as the ministry team at the May 2026 Spokane Catholic Engaged Encounter weekend that took place at the Immaculate Heart Retreat Center.

Thanks be to God for another enriching Spokane Catholic Engaged Encounter retreat. Special gratitude to Joe and Natalie Schroeder for presenting with us again. What a blessing this ministry has been to Sid and me…we can’t wait to present again. Don’t Blink.

Past Engaged Encounter Blog Entries
Embracing Vulnerability at Engaged Encounter
A Marital Lesson I Recently Accepted
Still Making It Look Easy: Fr. Pat Kerst
Presenting With My Wife at Engaged Encounter

Sacramentally Gifted

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Jesus said to them, “Very truly I tell you, unless you eat the flesh of the Son of Man and drink his blood, you have no life in you. Whoever eats my flesh and drinks my blood has eternal life, and I will raise them up at the last day. (John 6:53-54)

Even though we had prepared for nine months, it was a sight that seemed a tad foreign. On Monday, May 11, 2026, Sloan waited her turn in the communion line at St. Mary Catholic Church. Once at the front, she approached Bishop Thomas Daly as he distributed Holy Eucharist. However, instead of crossing her arms across her chest and receiving a blessing, she received Jesus instead.

Sloan received the sacraments of Confirmation and First Eucharist last night at St. Mary Catholic Church. This is her with Fr. Jeff Lewis and Bishop Thomas Daly (Photo Credit: Paola Muela).

It was a surreal but very proud moment to watch Sloan make her First Holy Communion. In classes since September to prepare for the sacrament but genuinely yearning to receive it for the past few years, it truly was a holy moment to witness her reach the source and summit of Christian life.

Sloan receives Holy Communion for the first time. This is her drinking from the Blessed Blood.

But it wasn’t just Holy Eucharist that our daughter received last night. She also received the Holy Spirit via the sacrament of Confirmation. Prior to partaking in the Lord’s Supper, Sloan stood in front of the congregation and publicly renewed her baptismal promises, affirming her Catholic faith.

Sloan stands in our yard before we drove to St. Mary Catholic Church for her First Eucharist/Confirmation mass.

With family friend Fidela Perry by Sloan’s side as her Confirmation sponsor, Bishop Daly anointed Sloan with sacred chrism oil, sealing her with the Holy Spirit. The sacrament instilled in Sloan the same grace and charge bestowed upon the apostles and other followers at Pentecost.

With Fidela by Sloan’s side, Bishop Thomas Daly confirms Sloan by sealing her with the Holy Spirit.

Not bad for a Monday night, right?

Sloan and some of her St. Mary (Spokane Valley) third grade classmates. The bond these kids have is truly special and it was a blessing that they were able to receive the sacraments together.

Sloan has now received all the Sacraments of Initiation (Baptism, Confirmation, Eucharist) plus the Sacrament of Reconciliation she received for the first time last year. These sacraments are truly gifts from God and I don’t know how to describe Sloan as anything else but sacramentally gifted 😉.

This is the banner Sloan made at the retreat held just a week prior to the First Eucharist/Confirmation mass. It was placed on the pew that our family sat in. I can’t thank Marie Bricher enough for all she does to prepare individuals to receive the sacraments.

But back to the two sacraments she received yesterday. On Monday morning, I crept into her bedroom for a few moments to gently wake her up (I was feeling nice 😂). As she started to slowly come to consciousness, I told her it was a big day and then I spoke from the heart as I started to become a little emotional. Stating what I wrote above, I told her I knew how much she was looking forward to tonight and how happy I was that she would finally receive Jesus. Luckily, she was still half asleep and couldn’t see my eyes watering up.

Sloan stands in the long line for her First Communion at St. Mary Catholic Church (Spokane Valley). It was worth the wait.

For the Sacrament of Confirmation, Sloan chose Fidela as her confirmation sponsor because—make no mistake about it—9-year-old girls can recognize and appreciate authenticity from a mile away. Sloan is inspired by Fidela, a convert to Catholicism (just like her mommy), who is on fire for the faith and a tremendous positive influence. When Fidela introduced Sloan to Bishop Daly, she used Sloan’s Confirmation name, St. Lucy. A martyr who turned away from her family’s wealth, Sloan was attracted to St. Lucy’s devotion and bravery.

Sloan’s confirmation sponsor was Fidela Perry, a family friend who has always been an incredible influence on Sloan.

As Sloan continues to walk in her faith, I hope she maintains the same devotion to the Holy Eucharist that she so passionately and genuinely had on Monday night. I also pray that she shows bravery when it comes to practicing her now-confirmed faith, even when it might be difficult or unpopular to do. In those difficult times, Sloan has the Holy Spirit to draw strength from. As Bishop Daly told the children last night, the Holy Spirit is like a coach or teacher ready to help and direct. May my daughter never hesitate to invoke this sacred member of the trinity. 

Words can’t describe how special Sloan’s St. Mary (Spokane Valley) third grade class is and the strong bond they all share. It was a joy and a blessing to watch these children receive the sacraments alongside by daughter as well (Photo Credit: Paola Muela).

Thanks be to God for the sacramental gifts bestowed upon Sloan. Pray for me as her father to always put her in a position to maximize their graces. Sid and I send our heartfelt appreciation to Marie Bricher and her team for preparing Sloan (and us!!) for these blessed sacraments. Come Holy Spirit! Don’t Blink.

Butcher Knives

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Over the past five years, I have engaged in a recurring debate with our family priest. Yes, I admit it, I argue with our priest. But to know Fr. Jeff Lewis and the relationship we have with him would taper any astonishment you have over such a seemingly sacrilegious act on my part.

Fr. Jeff takes a photo with our family after he blessed our house. You would think since he does such nice things for us that I wouldn’t argue with him 😂.

Anyway, the debate centers on this: The merits of digital media to evangelize and promote the case for Christ and the Church.

As you can probably guess, I am a proponent of the wide-reaching positive impact that Catholic-based social media, blogs, e-newsletters, podcasts, and more can have on believers and non-believers alike. Fr. Jeff is more skeptical.

But this past weekend when Fr. Jeff wrote his weekly pastor’s column on the topic, he ended the very well-thought-out piece with an even better final notion…

The internet and other digital media are like any other tool, such as butcher knives: they sure can be helpful…and, if mis-used, very dangerous.

I thought his conciliatory statement hit the mark and provided guidance that I can totally rally behind. If you have time, you should read his entire column as he directly addresses topics such as internet traps (online gambling, porn, etc.), YouTube, and social media.

Fr. Jeff and my family playing some Bingo. We may have very well debated the merits of digital media at this table!

He also touched on one final digital media “plague” that anyone who attends any church of any belief is probably all-too-familiar with: phishing scams.

It happens all too often. People receive text messages and/or emails from their pastor asking for money or gift cards. The “Pastor Jones” impersonator says it is urgent and that he can’t speak on the phone at the moment. But if you just donate, the priest or pastor explains, you will help the poor or support an important charity.

Folks fall for this all the time. Well-meaning and elderly are especially prone to the scam. And it is rampant. Like seriously rampant.

I have attended events hosted by other Christian denomination churches and ended up on their email lists. Sure enough, I receive the same communications from those pastors warning of the scam and offering the same, “I will never text you for money…” spiel that either Fr. Jeff or our parish secretary recites every month. Seriously folks, watch out for the people who are vulnerable in your faith communities.

I do prefer the approach that my parish takes with these cases after issuing the standard few sentences about how Fr. Jeff would never do such a thing. After the copy and paste warning is out of the way that every other church uses, ours always ends with the following: Please say a Hail Mary for the conversion and repentance of those perpetrating these scams.

Yes, let’s do that. Don’t Blink.