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Our Top 10 Favorite Fr. Jeff Lewis Moments

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How do you know if you were blessed with a one-of-a-kind priest? Aside from getting you closer to Heaven (😇), I would have to say the answer is obvious if you can easily recount 10 memorable moments from your time together.

Fr. Jeff Lewis fits that bill and then some. Because to be honest, it was almost impossible to choose just 10 moments from the past six years with Fr. Jeff. However, I did my best.

If you want my final tribute to Fr. Jeff go here, but if you just want the quick rundown of some really good times, please read on…

10. A Parting Gift – After the news of Fr. Jeff’s transfer was official, he reached out to as many parishioners as possible to schedule final get-togethers prior to his departure. Fr. Jeff paired our family’s last hurrah with our dear friends, the Perrys. During our dinner, Fr. Jeff presented each family with a piece of art. He gave us an Ascension-themed stained glass piece, noting that he thought of Sloan when deciding to pass it on to us. For him to give us a gift at all—let alone one that was filled with thought and from his own collection—was pretty special.

Fr. Jeff Lewis presents Sidney with a suncatcher depicting the Ascension during our dinner with him and the Perrys at Hops N Drops in June 2026.

9. Movie Star – Back in 2023, I was asked to create a surprise video for Sloan’s kindergarten teacher (Jordan Hoard) who was getting married. I decided to have Sloan and her classmates give advice to the then-Miss Roff on how to achieve a successful marriage. But for the video to have optimal impact and credibility, it needed star power. Fr. Jeff is always a good sport and down for anything, so he graciously agreed to appear in it.

A screenshot from the video that Fr. Jeff helped us make by appearing in it. I worked on a video that congratulated Mrs. Jordan Hoard on getting married and had her then-kindergarten class offering their marriage advice.

8. Softball Championship – Back in the summer of 2022, Fr. Jeff challenged our Young Adult group to establish a St. Mary softball program. One of our fellow charter couples of the Young Adult group, Brian and Hailey Eames, took lead. They organized a tournament with our brothers and sisters from the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints for that August. After a few weeks of practice, we played on the Mormon fields on a sunny Saturday morning. The tournament consisted of three LDS teams and our sole Catholic team. We easily won our first game to advance to the championship where we claimed the title with an 8-7 victory. After the game, we had a big cookout as both Catholics and Mormons came together for fellowship. Fr. Jeff’s vision would go beyond that debut weekend as St. Mary softball was “a thing” for a couple more summers.

A few photos from the day our St. Mary team won the softball championship. Sid and I got to play together on a sports team that was pretty cool. Fr. Jeff can be seen in the photo from the picnic that was held immediately after our victory.

7. House Blessings – Fr. Jeff cheerfully came to our home to bless our house on two different occasions. He first performed the rite when we moved into our rental shortly after we arrived in Spokane. He would then come again once we purchased our own home. Both evenings were lively and comforting as we would eat dinner and then Fr. Jeff would take his spray bottle filled with holy water and visit each room while also applying holy oils. We were grateful that Fr. Jeff never hesitated to do the blessings and always made them fun and educational for the kids.

Fr. Jeff Lewis with us after our first house blessing in 2021.

6. Sunrise Mass – I had the blessing of worshipping at a couple different sunrise masses that Fr. Jeff celebrated. My favorite was in June 2025 when we hiked Iller Creek in the Dishman Hills of Spokane Valley. Our group met at the trailhead at 4 a.m. and hiked to a spot that overlooked the Palouse. Fr. Jeff then said mass and timed it perfectly so that the sunrise was at its full glory during the consecration. What a moving and holy experience!

Fr. Jeff Lewis led a hike up the Iller Creek trail for a sunrise mass in June 2025.

5. Dinner With the Bishop – If you have ever tried to get on Bishop Thomas Daly’s calendar, you know how impossible it seems at times. So I don’t know how he managed it, but Fr. Jeff somehow got the Bishop to attend dinner with our Young Adult group. There was no agenda and no “ask” during the visit, Fr. Jeff just wanted us to enjoy the presence of Bishop Daly while showing the Bishop a thriving and strong community that developed during the pandemic when we were starving for Catholic fellowship.

Our Young Adult Catholic group surrounds Bishop Thomas Daly (center, with hands in pockets) in June 2022.

4. Marriage Prep Celebrations – Early on during our time at St. Mary, Fr. Jeff approached Sid and me about serving in a “mentor couple” role to engaged couples enrolled in marriage prep. We enthusiastically accepted and over the past handful of years we have worked with eight different engaged couples through a six-lesson program called “Beloved.” At the end of the sixth lesson, we would convene with the couple and Fr. Jeff at a restaurant (usually the De Leon location at Sullivan and Sprague) to debrief the engaged couple’s experience and to look forward to their wedding day. These dinners were always so positive, casual, and enjoyable. You wouldn’t believe how great Fr. Jeff does with these young couples!

Photos with us, Fr. Jeff, and some of the engaged couples we have been blessed to work with over the years.

3. WSU Football Game – One thing you should know about Fr. Jeff is that he is a huge WSU Fan—which makes sense because he earned his bachelor’s degree and master’s degree from the school. Back in November 2023, we tagged along with Fr. Jeff, Jeremy Cassidy, Amy Martin, and the Perrys to Pullman for a Friday night Washington State University football game. Prior to heading to the stadium, we all visited WSU’s Newman Center. Fr. Paul Heric gave us a tour and we tailgated in the parking lot. The Cougs crushed the University of Colorado that evening in Deion Sanders’ first season with the team.

Fr. Jeff Lewis and members of our Young Adult group went to a WSU football game in November 2023.

2. Presenting With Fr. Jeff at Engaged Encounter Retreats – As its chaplain, Fr. Jeff extended an offer to Sid and me to join a ministry called Engaged Encounter (totally separate from the “mentor couple” opportunity mentioned above). The main goal of the organization is to stage retreats for engaged couples getting married in the Catholic Church. During the retreats, two couples and a priest give a series of presentations throughout the weekend. Sid and I would ascend from newcomers to presenters to the leaders of the Spokane Engaged Encounter chapter. During our EE journey over the past four years, we have had the honor of teaming up with Fr. Jeff on two retreat weekends. I like to think we work together pretty well! It meant a lot that Fr. Jeff invited us into the ministry just to begin with but it has been a blessing for us to collaborate in our leadership roles together (when Fr. Jeff transfers to Walla Walla he will resign from his role as EE chaplain).

Sid and I stand with Natalie Schroeder, Joe Schroeder, and Fr. Jeff Lewis. We served as the ministry team at the May 2026 Spokane Catholic Engaged Encounter weekend that took place at the Immaculate Heart Retreat Center. We feel so blessed that Fr. Jeff invited us to join the ministry.

1. 2023 Hoopfest Weekend – Out of all the special moments with Fr. Jeff, our Hoopfest run in 2023 is at the top of my list. St. Mary sponsored our team which included fellow parishioners/Young Adult group members Amy Martin, JJ Nazzaro, and Ryan Andrade. Fr. Jeff was with us the entire weekend from the initial bus ride downtown to our finalist photos on Sunday afternoon. Despite losing our first game, we would cruise through the loser’s bracket to make the championship. Fr. Jeff led us in prayer prior to each game, cheered us on, and served us admirably in his role as team chaplain. But the best part of all was just hanging out with him throughout the course of the weekend and watching him minister to the thousands of people downtown. You would not believe all the people who called out “FATHER” to him throughout the weekend. For me, it was an experience that encompassed both friendship and evangelization—something that I will never forget.

The weekend we spent with Fr. Jeff at Hoopfest 2023 is one I will never forget. People in this photo include (from l-r) JJ Nazzaro, Amy Martin, Fr. Jeff Lewis, me, and Ryan Andrade.

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Wow. That’s a lot for under six years. I think it goes without saying that when you have so many big moments with a priest, it by default makes them your favorite priest, right? What a blessing to have Fr. Jeff Lewis become such an important influence on our family and contribute so many memories that we will forever look back fondly on.

For those Walla Walla families who are parishioners at either Assumption or St. Patrick, I hope you enjoy similar moments with Fr. Jeff. You are getting an absolute treasure. Don’t Blink.

My Top 10 Blog Posts of 2023

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Another Don’t Blink tradition celebrates its 10th rendition and it just so happens to be the biggest tradition of all. Today I present “The Big Blog Post”—my annual evaluation of the top 10 blog posts from the past 12 months. This end-of-year entry aims to recognize my most memorable and best work from the calendar year in an organized and fun fashion.

But it never is easy.

In 2023 I wrote 185 entries, a figure that bests the quantity of posts I wrote the previous three years (2020: 172 posts, 2021: 173 posts, 2022: 180 posts). Needless to say, signaling out 5% of the posts and then ranking them is no simple task.

However, as difficult as it may be, I do try my best. And when I say “my best,” I mean that I don’t pick and rank my top blog posts on total views and other vanity metrics. Instead, I make my picks solely based on what I feel is my best and/or most impactful writings. So let’s get to it…

10. Streaks (February 27) – This post cracks my top 10 because I feel it does a great job of explaining me. As a Type A personality who craves routine and wants to make sure everything is organized/planned, I depend on streaks to keep me on-task and challenged. I find motivation in simply doing something one day because I did it the previous day (and the day before that etc.). In this post I coined my obsession as streakism and shed light on some of the current streaks I was engaged with at the time. I also was frank that streakism can be good but also harmful if you let streaks rule your life and define whether you have a good day or not.

My Timehop streak is over 2,340 days.

9. Donut or Doughnut? (September 19) – A big question deserves a spot on the big countdown. Perhaps investigating whether America’s favorite pastry is spelled “donut” or “doughnut” might not be a big deal to you, but it kept me up at night. In this particular blog post I diplomatically laid out the merits for both spellings. If nothing else came of this post it might not have seen the light of day on this countdown but here is where things got really interesting: an actual donut business owner responded! Did I give away which spelling he sided with? Jon Fine, owner of Retro Donuts in Spokane, said that most of these pastries in question should be spelled “donut” because most of them aren’t made with actual “dough.” You can check out the post for the detailed explanation but Jon’s expertise made this blog post one of the best of the year.

Raise your hands if you know how to spell “donut.”

8. Third Year at WSU (March 16) – I will forever be grateful to WSU for the incredible employment opportunity I was given so whenever I write about my job it has special meaning to me. In this blog post I recapped my third year as a Coug and summarized it with one word: progress. I described how I “wasn’t new anymore” and that my third year was also an emergence of sorts as I “crept from behind the anonymity of the screen to the front of conference rooms” thanks to the lifting of COVID restrictions.

I had numerous speaking engagements in my third year at WSU, but none more important than my presentation with colleagues at the American Marketing Association’s Symposium for the Marketing of Higher Ed.

7. Vanity Tipping (April 18) – If you are looking for a post where my mild-mannered self became a little unhinged, you found it. In mid-April a shameless solicitation for a tip at a Papa Murphy’s restaurant put me so over the edge that I had to sound off. I blasted the current day gratuity culture that guilts you into tipping for everything, whether it be preparing your own froyo cup or paying for bowling. The passion that I injected into this blog post and my still-firm belief that tipping has catapulted out of control lands it a spot on this countdown.

I was given the opportunity to tip at the bowling alley earlier this month. It is out of control.

6. Happy 12th Ordination Anniversary, Fr. Jeff (May 26) – A very special man had become a regular in many of my blog posts over the past few years that it made sense to finally devote an entire entry to him. When Fr. Jeff Lewis’ ordination anniversary approached in May, I jumped at the chance to do just that. I commemorated the occasion by describing the amazing impact he has had on our family. Not only has “Papa J” brought the four of us closer to Christ but he has become one of our best friends. What a blessing it is to have him in our lives!

On Friday, May 26, 2023, Fr. Jeff Lewis celebrated his 12th anniversary of his ordination to the priesthood.

5. The Ice Cream Fruit Roll Up Hack (April 17) – One of the many TikTok hacks we attempted this year, the ice cream Fruit Roll Up hack actually exceeded my expectation. The Fruit Roll Up molded into a hard shell around the ice cream that produced a satisfying crunch and delicious taste when bit into. But the successful experiment itself is just a portion of why this blog post made the countdown, let alone found itself in a very respectable mid-spot. The reason why this post stood out is because the photography complements the writing. I wanted to make sure the photos I took chronicled the steps to pull off the hack and were also visually appealing. I think I accomplished that as this post was by far the one that used imagery most effectively in 2023.

The use of imagery played a big role in landing this blog post in the countdown.

4. Blessed By The Sacraments (June 11) – Our wedding anniversary will never be the same. This year we did more than just celebrate the date we tied the knot as we marked it by attending a baptism. And we didn’t just “witness” it as spectators—we participated in it as godparents! Ryan and Allyson Andrade made our year by asking us to be the godparents of their baby boy, Noble Josiah Andrade. This blog post underscored the even greater importance that June 11 now holds in our hearts. Whenever this date rolls around in the future, Sid and I will reflect on it as a day truly blessed in the sacraments for us with both the graces of holy matrimony and holy baptism.

Sidney and I became godparents to Noble Andrade. Fr. Jeff Lewis of St. Mary Catholic Church in the Spokane Valley performed the baptism. Noble is the son of Ryan and Allyson Andrade (photo courtesy of Rachael and Josh Photography).

3. Mary Reser: A Mead High School Legend (June 16)* – At the conclusion of the 2022-23 school year, my mom retired after 21 years at Mead High School. She spent those 2+ decades in the Developmental Learning Center (DLC) helping students with disabilities. I wrote this blog post to illustrate the talent, patience, and kindness that she displayed every single day in that classroom. I also described some of the typical situations my mom mastered with absolute grace and I took the reader through her last few minutes on the job when my dad, sister, brother, and I walked her off the campus for the final time. Mead High School is not the same without her.

My mom stands with her co-workers right before she walked off the Mead High School campus as an employee for the last time.

2. Tom Reser: A Devoted and Patriotic Career (January 8)* – My dad hung it up at the very end of 2022 but this blog post in his honor was published at the beginning of January. It was a tribute for the 37 years he devoted to the federal government as he helped thousands and thousands of our country’s veterans. Whether it was making sure they received benefits, housing, medical care, and so much more, my dad was (and still is) a fierce advocate of the men and women who served the United States of America. This post traced my dad’s career, chronicled the rapport he had with his team, detailed his tireless work on behalf of veterans, and examined his impressive legacy. My dad had a great first year of retirement with many more to come which is good—because he deserves it!

Besides helping thousands and thousands of other people, this guy taught me what it means to be a professional

1. Hoopfest 2023: More Than A T-Shirt (June 26) – An unforgettable weekend transpired at the end of June with a Hoopfest experience for the ages. Even though our St. Mary team had success on the court as we made the championship, our run to the title game was but a footnote. In my #1 blog post of 2023, I wrote about how we played for more than just wins. Four of us—JJ Nazzaro, Ryan Andrade, Amy Martin, and myself—were out on the hot downtown Spokane streets to give thanks to God, pay special devotion to our Blessed Mother, and promote the Catholic faith. In addition to the four of us, Fr. Jeff Lewis and our families also played key roles in our successful tourney run by being present for every game. From the basketball action to the bonding to the testimonies of our faith to the special mass after the tournament, this blog post captured the entirety of an incredible couple of days and is by far my favorite blog post of 2023.

There was no doubt that my 2023 Hoopfest blog post would be #1.

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This annual countdown is usually a challenge to put together but I must say the “top 3” was pretty straight forward for me this year. Thanks to everyone who takes time to read Don’t Blink. Your support is a main reason why I have invested more than 10 years into this project. I plan to continue to write in 2024 but I can never guarantee the frequency or quality 😂. I hope you will return here tomorrow for my final blog post of the year as I reflect on 2023. Don’t Blink.

* It was a tie between these two blog posts. Because one post had to come first, I flipped a coin to determine the order.

Past Annual Top Blog Post Entries
My Top 10 Blog Posts of 2022
My Top 10 Blog Posts of 2021
My Top 10 Blog Posts of 2020
My Top 10 Blog Posts of 2019
My Top 10 Blog Posts of 2018
My Top 10 Blog Posts of 2017
My Top 10 Blog Posts of 2016
My Top 10 Blog Posts of 2015
My Top 10 Blog Posts of 2014

Hoopfest 2023: More Than A T-Shirt

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Going into Hoopfest 2023, I was just hoping for a win. When the dust settled on Sunday, I felt like our team scored many more victories than just quadrupling the on-court win total I was crossing my fingers for.

I felt like our team overachieved in a pretty competitive bracket. People in this photo include (from l-r) JJ Nazzaro, Amy Martin, Fr. Jeff Lewis, me, and Ryan Andrade.

How It Went Down On The Court

What an experience this past weekend was. The St. Mary Squad started off the tournament on Saturday morning with a tough 20-15 loss to the Rez Runnaz. We knew the team we played was pretty decent and didn’t let the small setback get us down. We would win our 12:30 p.m. game (20-14) and then return the next day ready for a big run.

A look at our finalized bracket. We came through the loser’s bracket to play in the championship game.

Our team notched two comfortable victories early Sunday morning and then held on for a victory at noon to successfully seal our loser’s bracket odyssey to the championship game. For the title we played our opening round opponent—the Rez Runnaz. After playing three games seemingly back-to-back-to-back we had little gas left in the tank for the team that was undefeated and had last played at 10 a.m. Although we fell short, we had secured second place and a coveted finalist t-shirt.

We brought home a t-shirt! Ryan, Amy, myself, and JJ sport our finalist t-shirts in front of the Hoopfest backdrop on Sunday afternoon (photo courtesy of Amy).

But just a little bit of context about all those victories: I didn’t have too much to do with them. My St. Mary Squad teammates and fellow Young Adult Catholic members were simply spectacular. Everything started with our lead scorer and athletic specimen JJ Nazzaro. Then we had our 2-point ace Ryan Andrade who would answer the 1-point baskets of our opponents with bombs from downtown. Last but definitely not least, we had our team’s heart and soul—Amy Martin. Because of Hoopfest co-ed rules, a member of the opposite sex must always be on the court so that meant Amy played every single minute of all six games we competed in. Not only did she have the guts to go the distance, but she was an incredible contributor on both sides of the ball and never stopped hustling.

Ryan’s flawless shooting form is captured as he drains a 2-point basket.

Me? I was the fourth man who would give JJ and Ryan breaks while trying to play some defense and pull down a rebound or two. It was an honor to share the court with my teammates.

Even though I contributed the least to our team, I am pretty sure my kids thought I was the MVP 😂

Playing For More Than Hoopfest Glory

But enough about our on-court exploits and team scouting report. Hoopfest 2023 was so special because our St. Mary team was playing for more than a t-shirt.

Our team came together because we wanted to give thanks to God, pay special devotion to our Blessed Mother, and promote the Catholic faith. Helping us with this mission was Fr. Jeff Lewis, our pastor at St. Mary in Spokane Valley. At coffee and donuts one Sunday as our team was starting to come together, Fr. Jeff said that St. Mary would sponsor us once our roster was finalized. However, our dedicated priest did so much more than just make sure that our registration and uniforms were paid for.

Fr. Jeff Lewis poses with our team after the first day of the tournament. What a blessing it was to have him as our team chaplain.

Fr. Jeff rode the shuttle downtown with us, cheered our team on from the sidelines, and hung out with us after the games. But most importantly, he was there as our dedicated team chaplain. He led us in prayer before/after each game, had the materials in his pocket to distribute the anointing of the sick if needed, and was on-hand to give blessings and answer questions to the numerous people who approached him. Regarding prayer, as Ryan said, it was such a peaceful way to begin and end competition while at the same time drawing other people in. In fact, before the tournament was over, we had everyone praying with us from an opponent to our kids to the court monitor.

Fr. Jeff Lewis rides the STA Hoop Loop shuttle with us after the Sunday games.

This mission to put God before Hoopfest glory motivated those associated with our team to make sacrifices. Fr. Jeff gave up his Sunday morning masses to accompany us. Ryan and JJ both left their close-knit Hoopfest teams to play for the St. Mary Squad. And Amy played through serious knee issues. What selfless commitments from some truly great people.

Amy, Sloan, Sid, and Fr. Jeff walk through Riverfront Park on Sunday. Fr. Jeff hung out with us throughout the tournament.

Team Bonding

Because we were all so invested in this opportunity, it came as no surprise that we had such a fulfilling experience that went beyond the streets of downtown Spokane. Prior to this weekend, we got together for a couple of practices. We also had a lively text thread that was full of planning, joking, and anticipating (sorry for all the countdown texts, guys).

Perhaps I was a little too excited to play in Hoopfest.

Between our first and second games on Saturday, Sidney provided us all refuge from the heat by taking us to the break room of her work which happens to be in the heart of the downtown area. The four of us, some of our families, Fr. Jeff, and Fr. David Gaines took time to just relax and chat. Some of this break was spent talking about faith matters and some of it was spent talking about other things. But it all equated to some really nice fellowship.

Thanks to my wife’s connections, we had access to an air conditioned “team room” where we could find relief from the baking hot streets of downtown Spokane. In this photo, Fr. David Gaines and Fr. Jeff Lewis join the four of us and some of our families for a nice break.

Later that night, Sidney and I hosted a cookout at our house. Once again, us players and our families came together for more fellowship on a beautiful evening. In fact, do you want to know how close this Hoopfest experience has brought us together? We were all comfortable enough to play the game Stir the Pot as a big group. Don’t know what that is? Look it up! 😂

We had a team cookout on Saturday night that was pretty dang relaxing.

Finally, the icing on the cake was that when the tournament was over, we gathered for mass that night. With Fr. Jeff’s permission, we wore our finalist t-shirts to the service and he even incorporated our team’s Hoopfest success into his homily.

Holding up the number “2” after earning second place in our bracket. What a great weekend it was.

Gratitude

Before I close out this post, just a few shout outs: First and foremost, thanks to our families. Whether they were supporting us at the games or watching children at home, I know the four of us really appreciated the opportunity to concentrate on our six games we played throughout the weekend. Thanks to our spectacular court monitor, Keith Miner, and his daughter/scorekeeper, Maddie, for taking such superb care of our bracket. These fellow St. Mary parishioners always kept everything under control and applied all the rules perfectly. And finally, thanks to St. Mary for the sponsorship of our team.

Special thanks to my wife for all she did to prepare/take care of our family during the Hoopfest weekend.

I am grateful for the special Hoopfest opportunity I had this year. Amy, JJ, and Ryan…thanks for making our team work and for putting up with my less than stellar basketball skills. Fr. Jeff…you went above and beyond for us, thank you. Now, with all that said, who is sore?!

Thanks be to God. Don’t Blink.

Back For Hoopfest 2023

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I’m back! After not winning a game in Hoopfest last year, I am returning to Spokane’s signature event in search of a “W.” This weekend I will hoop it up on the streets of Spokane at the same Main and Post location I played at last year. But not everything will be the same…

I hold the 2023 Hoopfest player shirt while Sloan holds the Inlander Hoopfet guide.

This year I have a new team. With my siblings caught up in other obligations, I had to find different teammates. Luckily, I wasn’t a free agent for long. Instead of playing with my biological family this year, I am playing with my faith family. For Hoopfest 2023, I am representing St. Mary Parish and School with my good friends Amy Martin, Ryan Andrade, and JJ Nazzaro. We are bringing our love of competition and God to our bracket.

This year we are playing on the T-Mobile court. When I was downtown at Team Check-In yesterday I found our backboard. It is quite…pink.

A cool thing about our team is that we are legitimately sponsored by St. Mary. Fr. Jeff Lewis made sure that not just our registration fee was covered but our uniforms too. The tops we will be sporting this weekend have the St. Mary Spokane Valley logo on the front and a different Marian title special to each of us on the back.

Amy with our Hoopfest uniforms. I am wearing the Fatima top. Amy’s top pays tribute to Our Lady Undoer of Knots.

We begin our Hoopfest quest at 10 a.m. on Saturday. You can find us on the T-Mobile court right in front of the P.F. Chang’s restaurant on Main. Depending on the outcome of our first game, we will play at either 12:30 p.m. or 1:30 p.m. and then will resume our ballin’ on Sunday. Insert our official team name (St. Mary Squad) into the Hoopfest app to follow our progress or just come watch us in-person.

This is our bracket. Come watch!

Thank you to St. Mary for allowing us to represent our faith-filled community this weekend. Let us pray that everyone participating in Hoopfest has a safe tournament. Hope to see you on the court! Don’t Blink.