A Busy 2025 Holiday Break

“The party’s over.”

That’s the expression that Sid’s dad would always use when the Mathis girls returned to school after summer break. I hope he doesn’t mind me using it in a slightly different—but still very similar—context.

Today Sloan and Beau returned to St. Mary after 16 days out of school. They adjusted decently but probably not as seamlessly as me. I will write more about my transition tomorrow but tonight’s post is to reflect on another awesome Christmas break.

We packed in a TON from the moment the kids were released from school until the eve of their return. Seriously. The Friday evening of their release we went on a Christmas light tour and just last night we were at a birthday party. And in between all of that we kept busy—perhaps too busy. As per usual, I wanted to share 10 highlights from our time celebrating the holidays.

Reason For The Season – It is only appropriate to begin with the most important way we spent time over the past couple weeks. From Christmas Eve Mass to the Feast of the Holy Family to the Solemnity of Mary (Mother of God) to the Epiphany, we had plenty of opportunities to give thanks to God for the Incarnation.

During the break, we had multiple opportunities to worship at the holy mass. This photo is from Christmas Eve mass at St. Mary (Spokane Valley).

Sleepover! – If you ask Sloan and Beau the highlight of their break, they wouldn’t hesitate to tell you it was the sleepover we hosted for their cousins, Mik and John. Those four have a special relationship and to be honest, Sid and I had a lot of fun having them over as well. They played with Christmas gifts, ate pizza, watched movies, and splurged on an ice cream sundae bar.

Sloan, Beau, John, and Mik enjoy a sundae bar during their sleepover at our house.

Dave & Buster’s – At the beginning of break, I took the kids to Spokane’s brand new Dave & Buster’s. I purchased a play card that gave them unlimited credits for 90 minutes. Sloan and Beau actually got along well as they switched the card back and forth as they played all the games they desired. I was even able to sneak the card from the kids a couple times to play some of the classics while I sipped on $5 beers.

Playing at Dave & Buster’s was actually a lot more fun than what I remembered.

Bowling – When I asked Sloan and Beau at the beginning of break what they wanted to do most, they replied with bowling. Okay, easy enough. On Christmas Eve Eve we went to Players & Spectators for a quick game. Although we did use bumpers, Beau showed progress from last time as he could roll the ball down the lane himself without a ball ramp.

I could have used a photo of Beau throwing the ball down the lane but how could I pass on Sloan’s latest 6-7 reference? The kids had fun bowling at Players & Spectators in the Spokane Valley.

Building With Legos – The item at the top of the 2025 Christmas lists of both Sloan and Beau was Lego sets. They each received a couple and put them together over break. I enjoyed helping Beau build a space shuttle while Sloan needed no help whatsoever putting together complex designs. These build sessions produced some much-needed peaceful chunks of time around our house.

Sloan and Beau both worked a lot with Legos over break as they each received multiple sets for Christmas. This is Sloan during the beginning stages of one of her creations.

Dinner Out – We were fortunate enough to eat dinner at a couple restaurants over break because who doesn’t love eating out, right? The most memorable meal was eating at Outback, my wife’s favorite restaurant, the Saturday after Christmas. We also ate hamburgers at Red Robin with my parents and my sister’s family. For whatever reason, eating at a casual dining chain just seems more special when the restaurants are festively decorated and a limited edition holiday menu is offered.

During the holiday season we splurged by going out more than what we usually do. This is Sloan and Beau at Outback.

State’s Largest Gingerbread House – The Centennial Hotel in downtown Spokane was home to the largest gingerbread house in the state of Washington this past month. I took the kids to catch a glimpse of the structure built from 4,000 pounds of gingerbread and 1,000 pounds of flour.

We visited the state’s largest gingerbread house at the Centennial Hotel in downtown Spokane.

Going For A Ride – I made good on a promise to Beau to let him ride the animal go-carts at the Spokane Valley Mall. The adventure even interested his sister who decided to join us even though she could have stayed home. Both kids had a blast cruising on their carts as mall patrons gave glances of delight mixed with annoyance.

The kids had a lot of fun (and drew a lot of attention to themselves) riding these animal go-carts around the Spokane Valley Mall.

The Library – The best things in life are free. We made a couple trips to the Spokane Public Central Library so the kids could climb on the play structures, mess around on the computers, admire the views of the Spokane Falls, and…read.

Beau and Sloan play on the computers at the Spokane Public Central Library.

The “L” Stores – The library wasn’t the only place we visited over break that started with “L.” At Sloan’s urging, we checked out Lush, a handmade cosmetics store and then balanced it out with a visit to the Lego Store. This combination proved so satisfying that we repeated it a couple days later when we visited both places with Mik and John.

Sloan, Beau, and their cousins were given a special demonstration at Lush in downtown Spokane.

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It was another memorable break, indeed. I missed my kids at work today but was satisfied with the time we spent together. I also counted my lucky stars that I have a job that allows me to take time off during the holidays to be with my family. Already looking forward to next year! Don’t Blink.

Beau’s Benchmark: Reading in 2025

The Reser Reading Regimen looked a little different in 2025. When 2024 concluded, Sloan was released to read on her own. She was no longer bound to the two-story-per-night structure she thrived at for multiple years. Instead of sitting at my side on the couch, she curled up in her bed and explored chapter books such as Harry Potter and the Boxcar Children.

However, while my maturing daughter surrendered her seat on the right side of the couch, my little boy remained on the left. But that wasn’t the only change.

Not only did our reading crew get smaller but our completed book output did as well. In 2025, Beau and I read 285 books. We were a far cry from the 600 books we read as a family in 2024. To contextualize it even more on an apples to apples level, we fell well short of the 500 books Sloan read during her kindergarten year.

Beau holds the 284th and 285th books he read in 2025. We read these final books of the year at the Spokane Public Library (Central branch) in downtown Spokane.

So what gave in 2025? Well, a couple things. For starters, the adage that the attention span of boys is less than girls is no joke. Reading two books to Beau a night proved difficult when many times he would be dancing around the living room before we even made it through the first one. During some of the more manic evenings, we stopped after the initial story. But the real game changer came when Beau started kindergarten. Sid and I were not prepared for the amount of homework our 5-year-old son was assigned. By the time we finished his nightly worksheets, name-writing exercises, and sight word practice none of us—Beau included—had the stamina/patience for a book.

In 2025, we had many nights when we just read a single book. Attention spans of 5-year-old boys can be short.

For someone like me who thrives with goals and improvement, our final book total for 2025 is a little disappointing. At the same time, I need to give Beau and myself a little grace. Believe it or not, some perspective goes a long way. The good things from last year’s reading experience include…

A photo of me reading to Beau and his friends, Noble and Aria, in 2025.

Many “library dates” at the county and city branches. Beau and I sustained our reading supply by going to the library and checking out books. Besides just choosing books, the library was a place where Beau could do crafts, build on the Lego table, and play with other kids. For me, I was able to simultaneously pick out books for my own reading.

Plenty of quality time for the two of us. Although there were nights when Beau was off the rails, we also enjoyed many other evenings when Beau was either completely engaged or perfectly worn out from the day’s activities. During those instances when Beau sat/laid on me at perfect attention, I relished every moment.

Beau learned to read…to an extent! Since starting kindergarten, Beau’s teacher has done a masterful job teaching him the basics. By the time October arrived, Beau was helping me read books as he sounded out a lot of the words (it was so cute!).

We had many library dates in 2025. This is a photo of Beau relaxing on one of the chairs at the Spokane Valley County Library after reading a couple books.

With the arrival of 2026, I have two goals for Beau. Now that he has his own personal benchmark (285 books), I want him to surpass it. A goal of 300 books seems realistic. For the second goal, I want to see him continue to progress when it comes to reading. Hopefully by this time next year, he will be reading picture books with little assistance from me. In the meantime, if you have any book suggestions (for Beau or me), please let us know! Don’t Blink.

Becoming Routine: Our 2025 #1SE Video

CLICK HERE TO WATCH THE 2025 RESER FAMILY #1SE VIDEO

There was absolutely no debate in 2025. After completing the 1-Second Everyday (#1SE) project in 2023, I wrestled with doing it again in 2024. That inaugural year entailed a significant investment with self-imposed stress and expectations. Could I produce another worthy piece in 2024? With Sid’s encouragement, I moved forward with a second video and found the process to be easier and calmer with an ending project that was just as beautiful as the first. Thus, when 2025 arrived, I didn’t think twice about embarking on our family’s third #1SE video.

I didn’t think twice about creating a #1SE video in 2025…I just went for it. This is our YouTube thumbnail for the video.

The 2025 Reser Family #ISE video was once again a labor of love and thoughtfulness. Although capturing a one-second video every day is firmly ingrained in my daily routine, securing the right clip still takes creativity, thought, and a little planning.

Thankfully, the content aspect of the project is really the only thing I need to worry about when creating my family’s #1SE video. The #1SE app itself continues to be rock solid. It keeps everything organized and offers the music, transitions, and tools needed to make a memorable final product.

I always “premiere” our family’s #1SE video on our living room TV for Sidney, Sloan, and Beau. It is always a very special moment.

With all that said, I wouldn’t necessarily say our 2025 video is my best work. It isn’t that I lacked opportunities—we did more cool things this year than 2023 and 2024 combined. Also, it definitely wasn’t the subjects because my stars—Sid, Sloan, and Beau—were as stunning as ever. Perhaps it was just my own critical eye now that I am a #1SE veteran. You see, I thought the clip video quality in some instances was subpar and I also feel like I relied on live photos a bit too much. Additionally, I must have thought highly of Sloan’s soccer skills because clips of her kicking the ball became a bit repetitive.

But I do think these thoughts of second-guessing will dissipate soon. After being so thick in the final stages of the editing process, you become cynical. However, like I said, in a couple weeks I think the critical feelings will lessen in intensity and I will place our 2025 #1SE video on the same pedestal as our 2023 and 2024 versions.

After I show the #1SE video to my wife and kids, I then drive over to my parents’ house and show them on their TV.

Which leads me to your #1SE pedestal. Is it still empty? If so, here is my yearly plea: Do your own 1-Second Everyday video this year. As I mentioned above, the app handles most of the work. You just film the clips and #1SE will do the rest. In my opinion, completing a project like this is the ultimate New Year’s resolution/goal. Not only does it build discipline and promote creativity but it results in such a cool output. It improves yourself while at the same time it creates an endearing and everlasting gift for your loved ones.

I highly recommend creating a video using the I Second Everyday app.

I know it takes a spark and some motivation to get started. I watched my friend publish her #1SE video with amazement and envy for several years before I decided to challenge myself in 2023. I am so glad I did. I know Jennifer delighted in inspiring me (even joking that #1SE should give her a commission) and I can now relate. Multiple people created their own videos in 2025 based on viewing my videos in 2023 and 2024. Watching their final products over the past few days has been so fulfilling. If you decide to create your own #1SE in 2026, please don’t hesitate to reach out to me with questions. I would be more than happy to assist and support you throughout the year.

When you mash my family’s #1SE videos together (2023-25), I now have approximately 19 minutes chronicling 1,095 days. What a gift! To have three years of my family documented in such a rich way is simply invaluable. And, just like last year, I kicked off 2026 by jumping headfirst into creating a new video. I hope you will be in it. Don’t Blink.

The Extraordinary

Last week, my family found ourselves as visitors at a parish on the South Hill.

Although it was our first time attending mass at St. Peter Catholic Church, the priest was an old friend. When it came time to deliver his homily, Fr. Kevin Oiland led with a quote that is still top-of-mind for me.

We attended mass at St. Peter Catholic Church (Spokane South Hill) on Dec. 27 and our family friend, Fr. Kevin Oiland, delivered a homily about family that really hit home.

“The most extraordinary thing in the world is an ordinary man and an ordinary woman and their ordinary children.”

The quote, uttered by Christian apologist G.K. Chesterton, reverberated my ears with beauty and purpose. It made me take notice that my little clan of four might be more significant than originally thought. Perhaps our unit comprised of two parents who work regular jobs and two children who go to normal school and do normal activities could offer more than meets the eye.

A photo of my family with Fr. Kevin Oiland. It was a blessing to hear our friend preach recently. 

The first Sunday after Christmas is always reserved for the Feast of the Holy Family. On this day we take special care to reflect on the familial unit of Jesus, Mary, and Joseph. While reflecting, it is ideal to challenge oneself to emulate the sacred trio and to incorporate their own holiness into our own families. 

The joke is that Joseph must have had it tough being the only sinner in the family. But I guess that allows me to relate to Jesus’ foster dad even more given my status as a serial sinner. However, Joseph’s other traits provide me with the example and inspiration needed to be the best father possible. His words were few (in fact, he doesn’t speak once in the bible) but his actions were powerful. He provided for his family and listened to God. When you boil it down, that pretty much gets to the crux of fatherhood, right?

As we begin 2026, perhaps there isn’t a better resolution than to embrace the holiness that God has intended and expected for families. And like G.K. Chesterton reminds us, this holiness isn’t necessarily reflected by grandiose gestures or trailblazing pursuits. Rather, it is simply an ordinary man and an ordinary woman and their ordinary children doing ordinary things in the name of Christ. Don’t Blink.

Bracing For 2026

It was the first time such a thought ever entered my mind: The other day, I was thinking about the upcoming new year when the realization came to my mind that, hey, 2026 is a pretty big number.

What do I mean by that? Well, I mean that we are now in the latter 2020s and that a lot of time has passed since I was born at the end of 1986. When I first became cognizant of calendar years in probably 1993 or 1994, I bet I couldn’t even conceive of a world in 2026.

So I guess the point is that I never contextualized a year in such terms until 2026 appeared on the horizon.

Ready or not, regardless of my internal awe, 2026 is here!

Sloan and Beau are ready for 2026!

As I write every January, even-numbered calendar years always seem to bring more change and disruption to my family. On the other side of the coin, odd-numbered calendar years have always proven to bring more stability and status quo to the Reser household.

Well, we all know the parity classification of 2026 and it definitely isn’t odd.

So we shall see what this latest year brings. If the Reser trend holds true and change is in store, we will be ready—and cross our fingers that it is positive.

I can only guess how many teeth will be lost, how many sporting events will be played, and how many birthday parties will be attended. Will airplanes, achievements, and special announcements be part of 2026? Who will enter our lives for the first time? Will we visit anywhere new over the next 365 days? These are all questions I will attempt to answer in my end-of-year December blog post.

But excuse me, I am getting way too ahead of myself. Did I really just mention December? I should do myself a favor by first focusing on January. By taking it one day at a time with my family by my side and Jesus leading the way, I am optimistic about the potential of 2026. May you have a healthy, safe, and prosperous year. Don’t Blink.

2025: Stepping Up

About three weeks ago, I sat down on the couch with the kids prior to school. Usually things are hectic in the morning and I don’t get the chance to hang with them before loading up the car.

I asked Sloan and Beau a question: What is a leader?

“The person who stands at the front of the line,” my son responded.

Hmmm. Not exactly what I was going for.

“Someone who sets an example and shows people how to do things,” Sloan said, before adding, “And brings others closer to God.”

In 2025, the themes of leadership and prioritization emerged (photo taken by Nicole Lynn Photography).

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It has been a good year. As I write in every one of these annual entries, even-numbered years always bring change and disruption to our family while odd-numbered years usually bring more consistency. This pattern once again held true as 2025—although busy and adventurous—didn’t pack life changes or any “rug pulled from under us” moments.

Our 2025 didn’t pack too many surprises…which isn’t a bad thing.

It was a busy 12 months for our family. Compared to last year, we boarded more planes, embarked on more trips, played more sports, and even lost more teeth. Let’s see if I can summarize 2025 in two paragraphs…

Usually, for us, the first half of the year is mellower than the second half. Don’t know if that was the case in 2025. The year started in South Carolina with Sidney’s family. Once back west, Sid celebrated her 33rd birthday at the end of January and Beau marked his “golden” birthday (5 years old) in early February. During this latter month, Sloan asked me to be her date to the Daddy/Daughter dance and she won a Taylor Swift trivia competition. Speaking of my sassy daughter, Sid threw her a spa-themed 8th birthday party in March and then our family friend, Fidela, took her to the real thing shortly after. Sports ramped up in April with soccer and t-ball seasons but the real highlight of the month was going on our first cruise. Before our Caribbean tans disappeared, we were off to Disney World a couple weeks later. June was nuts with participation in a color run, Catholic Summer Camp, a wedding in Brewster, and a family affair at Hoopfest.

Sloan and I living our best lives on Freedom of the Seas. Our family went on our first cruise in April 2025.

In July, we attended numerous community events from park concerts to parades to outdoor movies. But the ultimate pinnacle was becoming godparents to Neteyam. In August we watched my niece get married, spent 24 hours in Walla Walla, and vacationed in Leavenworth. Sidney’s uncle and aunt paid us a visit and I went with my brother and dad to Seattle to watch the Mariners play. Baseball was a constant theme throughout the summer as I took my kids to several Spokane Indians games and we even branched out and attended a professional soccer match. The fall brought the Spokane Interstate Fair, lots of high school football, a visit from Sid’s parents, and a weekend trip to Missoula. Both kids played fall soccer seasons, Sloan joined Chess Club, and Sid and I presided over our second Engaged Encounter retreat of the year. During the winter Beau played basketball, we tried our luck at bingo, we hired a babysitter for the first time, and we attended as many holiday events as possible.

During the second half of the year, Sid’s parents came and visited. We had the pleasure of taking them to Montana for a portion of that visit. This photo was at a Griz football game.

Dang, did you catch all that? If you didn’t, perhaps what I am about to discuss next will be easier to digest. As all the fun mentioned above transpired, a couple themes that defined the year developed…

The first theme of 2025 for us was leadership. In January, Sid and I were elected leaders of our Spokane Catholic Engaged Encounter chapter. We didn’t seek the position nor expect it, but it has been a blessing (and a lot of work) to oversee such an important ministry. Teaming up with Sid makes it even sweeter. 2025 also marked the first full year in my marketing director role at EWU. As I continue to manage more people than I have ever before, I seized the chance to sharpen my leadership chops. Additionally, Sid volunteered for a 24-hour work innovation challenge and ran point of her squad. Despite all that, Sid and I realized where our leadership is needed most of all: in our family. I feel like we have relished the role God has given us to be the best guiders and examples for/to our children.

Sid and I were elected leaders of the Spokane Catholic Engaged Encounter chapter in January 2025. In this photo we pose with Ric and Cindy Gaunt (former leaders) plus Fr. Ken Krall during an October 2025 retreat.

Speaking of Sid and I, the other theme that manifested itself in 2025 was prioritization. And what I mean by this is placing my relationship with my wife above all earthly things—including our children. The necessity of this became apparent during one of the Engaged Encounter weekends we gave in May. The couple we presented with conveyed the importance of this prioritization and it really hit home. Sid and I have enjoyed a fruitful marriage but I thought forever that I was “doing it right” by embracing a “kids are always first” attitude. We tweaked things after that retreat and things have never been better.

I am lucky to have such an awesome wife; we had a wonderful 2025. #Prioritization

With those two unique themes defining 2025, the big three values I pinpoint each year continued to be critical in our lives…

Let’s start with family. The prioritization theme I just finished explaining contributed to the positive dynamic in the Reser household this year. The truth is that when the husband/wife bond is placed before all earthly relationships, everything else—children, extended families, friends, in-laws—will seamlessly and orderly fall right in line behind it. With Sid and I taking more time for each other—even hiring a babysitter at times—we set the necessary foundation for solid family life. It was a blessing to spend time with Sloan and Beau in fun spots like the Caribbean, Orlando, and Leavenworth but we continued to make memories inside our own home. Perhaps some of the best bonding time occurred when we had movie nights centered on “classic” films that Sid and I watched as children. My parents’ home continued to be a haven for my siblings and our respective families to gather for birthdays, holidays, Sunday dinners, and special events. We were blessed to see Sid’s parents three times this year—South Carolina in January, Florida in May, and Washington in October. Perhaps I should add “Montana” to the October meeting because a true highlight of that trip was taking “Gami and Dada” to Big Sky Country for their first time when we spent a weekend in Missoula. The Florida excursion was especially meaningful because in addition to my in-laws, Sid’s siblings and their families joined us as well.

Welcome to the Reser family Thanksgiving table! We had a lot of good times around my parents’ dining room table in 2025.

Our faith was in action in 2025. Thanks to our election as Engaged Encounter leaders, we spent lots of time nurturing the ministry through planning retreats, running meetings, hosting social events, and doing the behind-the-scenes work to keep our chapter healthy. Sloan and Beau finished and started school years at St. Mary Catholic School, attended Catholic Summer Camp, and showed up for as many Family Faith Nights as possible. It was a big year for Sloan and the sacraments. She made her first confession and started prep for the Sacrament of Confirmation and the Sacrament of Holy Eucharist. Sid and I mentored two couples for marriage, gave two Engaged Encounter retreats, and became Godparents again. Other highlights included hiking to a sunrise mass, attending the Easter vigil, joining a Catholic young family group, continuing my membership with the Knights of Columbus, and worshipping as guests at some beautiful Catholic churches across the country. For the second year, I made it through the entire bible. We mourned the death of Pope Francis and cheered the election of Pope Leo. We celebrated the ordination anniversaries of Fr. Ken Krall (54th), Fr. Mike Kwiatkowski (47th), Fr. Pat Kerst (35th), and Fr. Jeff Lewis (14th).  It was a faithful year that can best be described in four words: Thanks be to God!

Me, Sidney, Fr. Jeff Lewis, Fidela, Neteyam, and Dylan pose for a photo in the St. Mary sanctuary after the baptism on July 6, 2025. Thanks be to God! (Photo courtesy of Dylan/Fidela/Family).

Our careers continued to progress thanks to the supportive family and strong faith I just highlighted. Sid earned her company’s national In-Synch Award, traveled to Orlando for special recognition, and was promoted to underwriter. I enjoyed my first full year at Eastern Washington University as I grew our team, marketed our academic programs, generated community pride for the return of commencement to Cheney, and produced the 2025 EWU holiday video. But my proudest accomplishment in 2025 was writing a successful proposal that funded our marketing program and enabled the launch of a major brand awareness campaign. The key to our professional success in 2025 was the support we gave each other. Whether it was visiting each other at our respective offices, attending one another’s work events, or just being a cheerleader/open ear, there was never a doubt that we valued the workplace growth of each other in the same way that we value our own.

It was a good professional year for both Sid and me. This photo shows me with my colleagues in November 2025 with communications director Linn Parish on the left and digital marketing supervisor Ginny Baxter on the right.

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My apologies, these year-end blog posts always run long. As I prepare to sign off, I want to mention those our family knew who passed away this year: Ed Galloway, James Gibson, Rob Heacock, and Susan Yarborough. May perpetual light shine on them all.

Although it has been a good year for our family, we did lose some really good people. This photo was taken on Christmas Day at my parents’ house.

Thanks to everyone who entered/remained in our orbit over the past 365 days. We thank God for his many blessings and hope to use the lessons learned and the experiences gained throughout 2025 in the years to come. Don’t Blink.

My Top 10 Blog Posts of 2025

Let’s make it a dozen. Today marks the 12th time I have scrutinized my blogging from the past year to recognize my top posts. A tradition I started in 2014, I affectionately refer to this entry as “The Big Blog Post.”

With an unofficial title like that, I always try to bring my “A” game for this post. When crafting this countdown, I take great care to select posts that matter to me. Entries that required extra effort, mixed in creativity, recognized special people, or adequately documented major milestones will always appear before posts that only stand out because of high views or social media popularity. Quality over vanity.

For the fifth straight year, I increased my blogging output by penning 188 posts in 2025 (2020: 172 posts, 2021: 173 posts, 2022: 180 posts, 2023: 185 posts, 2024: 187 posts). Faced with my highest number of published posts since 2019, I had the challenging task of identifying the top 5% of my work for this prestigious recognition. I think I did okay…

10. Soda and App Family (March 19) – Sid and I are aware of our different familial upbringings and we usually see the humor in it. One such instance occurred this year when we watched a TikTok video about “Soda and App” families and “Only Water” families. In my blog post I highlighted that dining out with the Mathis family usually meant fun/colorful drinks and a couple appetizers for the table. In my family, we stuck to water and if we ate anything prior to the main course it was either free bread or free chips that the restaurant provided. Our different ordering preferences growing up established the way we order as our own family of four. This entry makes the list because it is humorous but it also conveys how traditions from our families of origin can be fused together to make new ones.

Our family eating at Prospector’s, a delicious restaurant in North Spokane. Portions were so huge at this restaurant that there was never a need to order appetizers.

9. The Fun of Taste Tests (September 17) – My my my, we are starting strong with food-related blog posts, huh? Well, losing weight wasn’t one of my goals for 2025. In an attempt to offer my readers a fun idea to do with their families on a rainy day, I suggested unofficial taste tests conducted right in the living room. I demonstrated how easy it is to conduct such a test by re-hashing some of the ones my family conducted in the past. From jalapeno chips to cookie dough ice cream to lemon lime soda, I offered not just examples but tips as well. This post was entertaining to write and I hope I sparked some inspiration among my readers.

Sloan received the opportunity of a 5-year-old’s lifetime when I told her she would get to sample three lemon lime sodas.

8. Wishing Your Spouse “Happy Birthday” On Social Media – This post made the countdown because it did spark some debate and because I had a strong opinion about it. A smug influencer made a cringy video in which he declared that spouses who wish each other “happy birthday” on social media are insecure. Hmmmm. Although I conceded that I might be subconsciously insecure, I made it clear that I consciously wish Sidney a “happy birthday” on social media for other reasons. In the post I fleshed them out, including the desire to notify others that it my wife’s birthday, the creativity that social media allows for birthday wishes, and the documentation/historical aspect that digital communication offers. If the happy birthday/insecure arguments becomes “trendy” in the future, I won’t hesitate to point to this blog post.

I always wish my wife a “happy birthday” on all my social platforms.

7. Falling Down the Stairs (August 19) – Although short and rather insignificant, I knew when I wrote it that this post would make my yearly rundown. This entry takes the reader through my traumatic experience of falling down the stairs and the toll it took on my old body. But what seemed to really make this post shine was my daughter’s response when I told her my fall was caused by tripping on one of her toys. I still don’t appreciate what she said.

A look at the stairs I fell down in our house.

6. One Year An Eag (August 1) – I had multiple work-related posts I considered including but I decided to go with the most significant and all-encompassing option. I celebrated my one-year anniversary at Eastern Washington University by looking back at the main themes from my first 365 days while including a pretty spiffy Dr. Pepper motif. In the post I highlighted the meaningful work I embraced, the powerful work relationships I made, and the growth I experienced. I also questioned whether people telling me “It seems like you have been here much longer than a year” was a good thing or not.

Members of my team and I take a photo during a video shoot at Turnbull National Refuge. My first year at EWU was full of growth and adventure.

5. Our Father/Daughter Dance Tradition (February 11) – Earlier this year, I attended the St. Mary Catholic School Father/Daughter Dance with Sloan for the third consecutive year. Over those three evenings from 2023-25, some special traditions have been established. This blog post shared those traditions and included photos from each dance. I am grateful for this post because I think it will help Sloan and me uphold traditions at future dances and also serve as something to look back on years after my daughter has finished her time at St. Mary.

This post touched on the traditions we have established at the Father/Daughter Dance and showcased photos from all three years.

4. Why We Went to Disney World (May 5) – In 2025, we had the privilege of going on two major vacations: a cruise and a trip to Disney World. However, the blog posts that covered those adventures didn’t make “The Big Blog Post.” Rather, the post I wrote about why we went to visit Mickey did. You see, the only reason why we had the opportunity was because of my wife’s incredible work with her company, Traveler’s Insurance. Sidney won a prestigious award and was granted an all-expenses paid trip to Orlando. This post dove more in-depth about why she received the honor and how she was celebrated once we arrived at Disney World. Yep, the post is brimming with pride but it was the least an awestruck husband could do to properly say CONGRATS to his wife.

Thanks to Sidney’s work performance with Traveler’s Insurance, we were given an all-expenses paid visit to Disney World. This is us at the beach welcome party on Thursday, May 1.

3. Fr. David Gaines Dispensing Healing and Forgiveness (February 7) – Earlier this year, a priest I know was suddenly thrust on the national news outlets after being attacked at Our Lady of Lourdes Cathedral. Fr. David Gaines was participating in a prayer service from the cathedral’s sanctuary when a mentally ill individual sprinted from the pews and ambushed him. In the post, I expressed how touched I was by the way Fr. Gaines conducted himself both during and after the attack. While the attacker was throwing punches, Fr. Gaines did his best to calm him down. Afterwards, when Fr. Gaines was sought by organizations ranging from TMZ to NBC News (and everything in-between), his message was the same: forgiveness. How inspiring! The post allowed me to convey that I am proud to be Catholic, proud to be part of the Diocese of Spokane, and proud to know Fr. Gaines.

My brother and I receive a blessing from Fr. David Gaines right outside of Our Lady of Lourdes Cathedral during Bloomsday 2024. About nine months later he would be attacked inside that very same church.

2. Travis Overton: A Kind and Selfless Leader (January 1) – 2024 ended on a sad note when I learned on New Year’s Eve that Travis Overton had passed away unexpectedly. I worked with Travis during my time at Coastal Carolina University and was shocked to learn of his death. I wrote the entire next morning about our history together, his ascension up the career ladder, and how I respected him. I then told a story I had never shared publicly about Travis coming to my rescue during a very vulnerable moment. By far, the post was my most-read entry in 2025 but like I said before—I don’t strongly consider views when building this countdown. Rather, this blog post earned such an esteemed spot because it was a raw tribute to a friend and mentor.

Travis Overton was a special person. This photo is a screenshot from the 2016 holiday video. I was pretty surprised that I didn’t have an actual photo with Travis but you can spot me in the background trying to do a “dance move” in the teal hoodie.

1. Godparents to Neteyam (July 15) – This past summer, Sidney and I received the incredible blessing of becoming godparents again. That’s justification enough to earn the top spot on this countdown! However, the post I wrote regarding our godson receiving the holy sacrament went beyond just Neteyam getting baptized. It also delved into what set us up to become his godparents: our friendship with his mom and dad.

My top blog post of the year chronicles the mass in which Fr. Jeff Lewis baptized Neteyam Perry but it also speaks to our relationship with his parents, Dylan and Fidela. In just about four years we have gone from not knowing them to serving in one of the most important roles one couple can bestow upon another. The post fills in the blanks of those four years and reveals the glue that keeps us so united. It also gives glory to God for the gift of baptism. A post of the year for sure.

Me, Sidney, Fr. Jeff Lewis, Fidela, Neteyam, and Dylan pose for a photo in the St. Mary sanctuary after the baptism on July 6, 2025. Thanks be to God! (Photo courtesy of Dylan/Fidela/Family).

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And that will do it for my top posts of 2025. Thank you for your readership throughout this year and for any feedback you might have about my selections. The plan is to continue to write in 2026 so I hope you will continue to read Don’t Blink as we enter the new year. Stay tuned for tomorrow’s annual year-in-review. Don’t Blink.

Past Annual Top Blog Post Entries
My Top 10 Blog Posts of 2024
My Top 10 Blog Posts of 2023
My Top 10 Blog Posts of 2022
My Top 10 Blog Posts of 2021
My Top 10 Blog Posts of 2020
My Top 10 Blog Posts of 2019
My Top 10 Blog Posts of 2018
My Top 10 Blog Posts of 2017
My Top 10 Blog Posts of 2016
My Top 10 Blog Posts of 2015
My Top 10 Blog Posts of 2014

Grinchmas

With Christmas Day now passed (but Christmas Season just getting started), there is one trend that stuck out like a green thumb in the lead up to December 25.

My family noticed that Santa was frequently replaced with the Grinch. Numerous times in December, it was Dr. Seuss’ cranky character that was the main draw over St. Nick. From tree lightings to meet and greets at stores, it was the Grinch who was pressing the button or sitting in the throne—actions and places of honor usually reserved for Mr. Claus.

My thoughts? I think it is a cool deal to have the Grinch appear maybe at a single community event during the holiday season. Keeping his appearance at the novelty level is key. But making the Grinch’s prevalence anywhere near that of Santa oversaturates the character. Additionally, I also think it sends the wrong message during Christmastime.

Don’t get me wrong, I know the entire theme of the Grinch centers on his conversion from a Christmas-hating fiend to a Yuletide-loving pillar of the community. This message should be celebrated with zeal this time of the year. The problem is that at the Grinch appearances I witnessed this season (and the countless others my son watched on YouTube) he shows up in pre-transformation character. The costumes/make up depict him scowling and he acts mischievous. Sorry for my unpopular opinion, but I rather have my kids exposed to a kind man in a red suit than someone trying to replicate the aura of Jim Carrey’s 2000 performance.

With all that said, I thought I would end this post on a fun note instead of a lecturing one. As I mentioned, we encountered the Grinch numerous times the past few weeks. Just like with Santa, there are so many variables when it comes to putting together the “total look” that one Grinch might look completely different than another Grinch. Such was the case for us. Please tell me which Grinch we met “wore it best”…

Grinch at the Union District (Spokane) tree lighting event…

This Grinch we met at the Union District tree lighting ceremony in Spokane was the most human-like.

Grinch at the “Grinch House” Christmas light display…

This Grinch we met at a holiday display in Spokane was probably the kindest Grinch we met.

Grinch at Players & Spectators (bowling alley/fun center)…

This Grinch we met at Players & Spectators in Spokane Valley was by far the most cartoon-ish.

Hope everyone is enjoying their holiday week! Don’t Blink.

Beau The Baller

It has been quite the year for Beau and team sports. He played t-ball for the second straight season in the spring. Much like the first year, it was tough to keep him focused. He tried soccer for the first time this fall. It seemed to fit him better and he was able to expend more energy. Finally, this past Saturday, Beau finished his debut basketball season. He might not be Lebron but he seemed like a natural.

Beau played basketball this year for the Spokane YMCA league.

Beau played in the YMCA league on a team comprised of his male classmates from St. Mary Catholic School. A parent had discovered that the Y was offering a kindergarten league and asked everyone else in the class if we wanted to sign up our sons. Even though Sid and I were itching for a break from sports, the opportunity was too good to pass up.

You probably noticed that I mentioned kindergarten league and your first thought may have been “Isn’t that a little too young for organized basketball?”

Beau dribbles/holds the basketball during a recent game at Horizon Middle School.

I would be lying if I said I didn’t think the same thing (at first). However, the league really does try to cater to 5-year-olds. The baskets are set at lower heights and they hire some of the most patient and supportive referees. Traveling? Just like in the NBA, it is rarely called.

The YMCA league helped make the game relevant/accessible to Beau’s kindergarten team. The referees knew exactly how to call the game in a way that kept the action moving and encouraged the kids. The official in this photo was phenomenal (Beau is #33).

Yes, the style of play could give a normal basketball fan some anxiety. Like I mentioned, kids run with the ball at times and forget basic things like taking the ball out after a made basket (that’s correct, baskets are actually made at this level!). Stealing the ball is prohibited and dunking is too so I had to tell Beau to play below the rim. 😂

Speaking of Beau, it was a thrill to see him score some points throughout the season. It was also rewarding to see him pass the ball better and more frequently as the season went on. Every Saturday morning when we went to one of his games he was excited to play. When we told him the season was over, he was sad.

Beau stands with my parents after his final basketball game of the season.

I give a lot of credit for his positive experience to Jaysanna Wang. She graciously (and bravely) volunteered to coach and did a superb job. She taught the “Knicks” the basics and brought consistency and organization to the team. After observing numerous sports seasons that my kids have participated in the past several years, the coach can truly make a difference—for better or worse. Jaysanna positively enhanced Beau’s first basketball opportunity.

Say hello to the Knicks. Jaysanna Wang volunteered to coach the squad and did an exceptional job.

There is no question Beau will play basketball again next year. I hope he continues to improve. Like I have alluded to before, our son isn’t going to get much help from his genes—his parents lack athleticism and height—but as long as he is having fun and progressing that is all you can really hope for.

It was a great first year of basketball for Beau. We look forward to next season.

As for now? That break from sports that Sid and I were itching for when soccer ended is now a reality. We are very thankful that Beau had the chance to play hoops with his closest friends but we are excited for the holidays and some downtime. Don’t Blink.

Brent’s Top 5 Best Songs of 2025

Hit the music, DJ! I hope you have room on your playlist for five more songs because I am back with my top picks for 2025. This is my 11th time counting down my top five songs of the year but if you are a Don’t Blink newbie, let me give my annual disclaimer: I know as much about music as my dad knows about the 6-7 trend (which is to say NADA). However, I am a good American who always has an opinion so I never hesitate to grace my readers with what I feel qualifies as good music.

My overall assessment of music in 2025? Let’s just say that when November arrived I knew this blog post was going to be a tough one. The last time I struggled so much with picking five decent songs was in 2022. So, with that said, here is the best I could do from the past 11+ months…

Tonight I once count down my top five favorite songs from another year.

5. Anxiety –Doechii

If not for tremendous creativity, this song would not be on my list. Usually I select songs based on listenability and I would argue that this song is anything but pleasant to listen to. However, it did such a masterful job of creating a sound that encompasses the emotion of anxiety that I felt compelled to recognize it during a year where the pickings were slim.

A couple intangibles also helped this Doechii track crack the countdown. First, the music video is pretty entertaining. Just like with the song, it really captures anxiety. Also, the spoken part of the song (And it’s like I get this tightness in my chest…like an elephant…) is pretty great. 

4. What Was That – Lorde

Lorde, where have you been all my life?! After going quiet for several years, Lorde re-emerged in 2025 and I thought she did herself proud with her first single off the new album. In my opinion, “What Was That” fell right in line with Lorde’s distinct and at times mysterious vocals. It reminded me a little bit of her hit “Team” from 2013.

Out of all the songs on this countdown, “What Was That” provides the vibe-check, the one track that I can listen to while just chilling out. Even though I could care less about the lyrics and I couldn’t even tell you what they are about, the song has a quality that allows you to either do some deep thinking or to just zone out completely.

3. Ordinary – Alex Warren

What made this song work? When it comes to our family, the answer was simple: cadence. The beat of the song is structured and powerful, making it easy to follow along. While driving the kids to school it was so easy for us to all exclaim the word “ordinary” on key. For someone like your favorite blogger who is usually unable to sing anything by himself on key, this was quite thrilling.

The song is also ultra meaningful as it is a tribute to Alex Warren’s wife. Throw in the fact that Warren is Catholic and he uses religious imagery to describe his devotion to his bride and it just all seems to come together.

2. Golden – EJAE, AUDREY NUNA, REI AMI

Was there anyone with a child in the 5 to 10-year-old range who didn’t find themselves secretly energized by “Golden”? The title track from “K-Pop Demon Hunters” became a smash hit and I can’t say it was unwarranted. Catchy and easy to sing along to, I admit that as a 39-year-old man I found it quite delightful.

I think the appeal of “Golden” goes beyond its pop culture significance and addictive melody. Again, I am not an authority in music, but I believe the vocals to be outstanding as the trio truly belts it out. I also find the song to be positive and inspiring overall. And if you never found yourself singing We’re goin’ up, up up then you are lying.

1. Undressed – Sombr

This is an unconventional song to find a spot on my annual countdown, let alone the top spot. I don’t necessarily think it is catchy or easy to sing along to. It isn’t even a song I am dying to play when doing the dishes. However, despite missing all those things, it does make me feel some type of way.

No, it isn’t the lyrics themselves that resonate. Rather, it is just the sound. “Undressed” packs some serious nostalgia as it transports me back to high school in the 2003-05 era. A lot of people connect Sombr’s sound to various singers and bands but for me one act comes to mind: The Killers. Yep, Sombr reminds me of The Killers, a band that I loved to listen to and reminds me of good times. When it comes to this challenging year in music, a solid dose of “retroness” was enough to ascend my list.

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That will do it for my top songs in 2025. Before I sign off, I want to answer the questions I asked at the end of my 2024 post: Yes, Taylor Swift still rules the world. Yes, Sabrina Carpenter is still on her upward trajectory. And, no, Shaboozy didn’t come close to releasing anything nearly as catchy as “Bar Song.” My only question for 2026 is pretty simple: Will the music please be better? Don’t Blink.

Brent’s Top 5 Best Songs of 2024
Brent’s Top 5 Best Songs of 2023
Brent’s Top 5 Best Songs of 2022
Brent’s Top 5 Best Songs of 2021
Brent’s Top 5 Best Songs of 2020
Brent’s Top 5 Best Songs of 2019
Brent’s Top 5 Best Songs of 2018
Brent’s Top 5 Best Songs of 2017
Brent’s Top 5 Best Songs of 2016
Brent’s Top 5 Best Songs of 2015
Brent’s Top 5 Best Songs of 2012