My family experienced something for the first time this month: We went on a cruise! And when I say “my family” I don’t just mean just the four of us—my parents and my sister’s family came along too. In fact, it was my sister who pitched the idea of a family cruise and who worked really hard to convince us to sail with her. 

All 12 of us in the West Palm Beach Airport.
I am glad she was successful.

Sloan and I living our best lives on Freedom of the Seas.
Our contingent of 12 boarded the Royal Caribbean Freedom of the Seas for a six-night western Caribbean cruise. We made stops in the Bahamas (Nassau), Jamaica (Falmouth), and Haiti (Labadee). But interestingly enough, although all beautiful, it wasn’t really the countries we visited that made the trip so special but rather the time spent with family and the unique cruise culture that really defined our time at sea.

My parents hang with Sidney, Sloan, and Beau on the Freedom of the Seas. It was so nice to vacation with them.
There is so much to say about the seven days we spent cruising the western Caribbean but not enough space to do so. The best way I can provide an accurate snapshot of what made the trip so endearing and memorable is to breakdown the 10 themes/activities that best highlighted our vacation…
Pools – The sunshine and humidity greeted us each day of the cruise. If not for the refreshing pools, the transition from humidity-free and cool Spokane may have been a difficult one. It was so relaxing to hang poolside and watch the kids have a ball. Adding to the experience were competitions/entertainment, a giant video board, all the ice cream you could eat, live music, and full-service bars.

Beau holds up a score of 5/10 during a Freedom of the Seas belly flop competition at the pool.
Shows – As a first-time cruiser, I didn’t realize the quality of the nightly shows that are offered. From comedy to Broadway-themed performances to ice skating spectaculars, they had something fun and unique each night. My personal favorite was juggler/comedian Pete Matthews.

A photo I took of Pete Matthews performing on our ship.
Beaches – The top way we engaged with the countries we visited was to hang out on their beaches. We enjoyed the white sand and “Windex” blue waters of both Nassau and Labadee. Best part? The water was warm enough to actually hang out in!

Beau hanging out at the beach we visited in the Bahamas.
Dinners – Overall, the food was delicious, plentiful, and diverse. But what I enjoyed most about the culinary experience was nightly dinner. Each evening, we reported to the elegant dining room at the same time to be served by the same waiter. It proved to be the best bonding time for my family. We got to recap the day and look forward to the night. The menu changed nightly and I never had one bad meal. What a treat!

My family posing for a photo at the table we are dinner at every night we were on the cruise. I really valued these special meals.
Crew Members – By mentioning our waiter in the previous theme, I realized it was the perfect segue to recognizing the incredible crew members aboard Freedom of the Seas. From our aforementioned waiter (Barton) to our housekeeper (Ronaldo) to our favorite lunch greeter (Siya aka Ms. “Washy Washy”) to the cruise director herself (Caroline), everyone was phenomenal. Service is emphasized and evident from the moment you step on the ship.

Everyone who worked aboard Freedom of the Seas were awesome. Sloan is shown with our waiter (Barton) and a Windjammer greeter (Siya). In the bottom right hand corner is a photo of Sloan and Beau with the Freedom of the Seas cruise director (Caroline).
Ducks – This might entail an entirely separate blog post, but I quickly found out that “duck hunting” is a thing on cruise ships. People hide toy ducks for others to find as it takes on a life of its own. Sloan became a little obsessive with the challenge and brought home 13 ducks. When our waiter heard about our daughter’s enthusiasm for the activity, he surprised her with two ducks waiting on her plate when we went to dinner the last night.

Sloan holding one of the ducks she found on Freedom of the Seas.
Casino – A two-level casino complete with table games and slots awaited my wife when we boarded the ship. On a few of the nights, we would check Sloan and Beau into “Kid’s Adventure” (the ship’s daycare program) and we would try our luck…well, Sid would try her luck at least. On this particular trip, her mojo was good! We stepped on land with more gambling money than we took on the ship.

Sidney winning some money on a Freedom of the Seas slot machine.
Karaoke – The ship offered so many activities such as crafts, dance lessons, trivia, putt putt, and much more. The one option that Sid and Sloan couldn’t get enough of was karaoke. The entertainment staff made the sessions so much fun whether you wanted to just sing along from your seat or belt out your favorite tune in front of everyone. At one particular Taylor Swift-themed event, Sloan sang some of “Anti-Hero” and then joined all the other Swifties in attendance for a rendition of “Shake It Off.” But my proud moment came the evening that Sid and Sloan performed a mother/daughter duet of “Can’t Stop the Feeling.” The lounge was filled to capacity as my girls did Justin Timberlake proud.

Sloan and her fellow Swifties aboard Freedom of the Seas belt out “Shake It Off.”
Parties – If you weren’t exhausted at the end of the day from sun, fun, and activities you could party the night away. The ship offered themed bashes that took place right in the middle of the interior common area. The 70s party and the 80s party were my favorites. It was a highlight for Sloan when we brought her to the party area one night and she got to join a conga line. That same night, the cameras caught Beau break dancing. You see, all the parties were streamed live to the ship’s closed circuit TV station and you could go back and re-watch. You better believe we watched Beau’s moves more than once.

Sidney enjoying herself at the Freedom of the Seas 70s party.
Gym – If you aren’t working out while on a cruise ship, you are just setting yourself up to gain 15 pounds by the time your vacation ends. Okay, I am being dramatic. But the immaculate gym on the Freedom of the Seas was too good to pass up. Every full day of the cruise I started my day by exercising the moment the facility opened at 6 a.m. With breathtaking views, I would watch the sun rise while getting my cardio in.

I got in five good workout at the Freedom of the Seas gym. Watching the sun rise while working out was pretty cool.
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It took me long enough to experience a cruise but I definitely now understand the appeal. The “cruise culture” I earlier mentioned is infectious and the ability to go as hard (sign up for every excursion possible) or easy (just enjoy life on the ship) makes the experience inclusive to all. You would be surprised at how affordable cruises are and when you factor in the all-inclusive nature of most, the value is superb. What other vacation offers the chance to see multiple countries, eat all you want, and enjoy first class entertainment each night?

It was cool to go on a vacation with my parents and sister’s family.
So from a bang-for-your-buck perspective, I think it made a lot of sense for us to set sail on the Freedom of the Seas. But again, the fact that we got to do it as a big family made our cruise totally worth it—discounted or not. Thanks again to my sister for spearheading this special trip and I hope to “cruise” again in the future.

Beau and Sloan hanging out with one of the Jamaican locals.
Keep an eye out for those ducks! Don’t Blink.