Our Father/Daughter Dance Tradition

This past Friday, Sloan and I attended the St. Mary Father/Daughter Dance for the third straight year. It was once again an awesome evening where we bonded and enjoyed time with our St. Mary community.

If you know my wife, she always says that, “Brent loves a tradition” and that it usually only takes us doing something once for me to christen it “a tradition.” Well, according to those terms, after three years now, the Father/Daughter Dance is a full-blown, longstanding tradition for us.

Sloan with her friend Allie at the 2025 St. Mary Father/Daughter Dance.

Our evening has started the same way the past three years: Sloan and I take photos outside the house before leaving. Usually, like this past Friday, it is freezing.

The past three years prior to the St. Mary Father/Daughter Dance we have taken outdoor photos at our house before leaving.

We then head to the Spokane Valley Red Robin for dinner. We order burgers and the same beverages (Shirley Temple for Sloan and a Blue Moon for me).

Before heading to the dance at St. Mary, dinner at Red Robin is a must.

But we don’t dine alone. Red Robin is also where we meet our double date—Riley and Colie Golay. We love hanging with Riley and Colie and really appreciate their loyalty over the past few years.

Sloan and Colie over the years.

After we finish at Red Robin, we head to the St. Mary Gym, usually arriving right when the doors open at 6:30 p.m. Our first order of business upon checking in (after Sloan chooses her corsage) is to head to the fine arts room to get our picture taken. It is easy to admire the photography skills of ___________.

Our official St. Mary Catholic School Daddy/Daughter Dance photo from 2024. Can’t wait to see what our 2025 photo looks like!

From there we usually snag some punch and treats. We meet back up with Riley and Colie at a table and then we hit the dance floor.

Sloan at the past three St. Mary Father/Daughter Dance.

I am usually good for a handful of dances as Sloan rotates between her old man and her friends. The dance organizers and DJ always keep things light and fun with classic hits that everyone knows and are easy to dance to.

A raffle is then conducted at the end of the night. Mr. Schultz, the 8th grade teacher, always begins the raffle by making the girls pledge not to get upset if they don’t win. The pledge isn’t always kept. Thankfully, Sloan won for the first time this year and was able to enjoy the final dance that always follows the raffle with a big smile on her face.

The top photo of the collage shows Sloan at the prize table after her name was called for the raffle.

Please check back with me in five years. My prediction is that our Father/Daughter Dance tradition will look very much the same as it does now…that is, of course, if the Golays still put up with us. Thanks to St. Mary Catholic School for always putting on such a memorable event. Don’t Blink.

Conversations Thursday Rundown

Good evening everyone, it is great to be back for another Thursday Rundown. Hope everyone is enjoying the basketball. The WSU men’s basketball team will tip off against Drake soon so GO COUGS! Here we go with tonight’s five topics…

Lego Load – On Tuesday night, our doorbell rang. The kids opened the door to discover our next door neighbor holding a large box. We welcomed him inside and when he put the box on the floor we saw the contents: Legos. He had brought over his entire collection to give to Sloan and Beau. Many vehicles, buildings, and other structures were already built and a whole village of Lego people were also concluded. Beau loves Legos so this was a jackpot for him. Sid and I are hoping this might get him to finally sit still for 10 minutes.

Beau holding a couple of the Lego creations that he removed from the big box.

Sloan’s Birthday Cake – I routinely share photos of the cakes from our birthday celebrations so here is Sloan’s. Although I really do prefer cakes from Rosauers, we purchased this one from Walmart. They really couldn’t do a Taylor Swift theme so they just made something pretty for her. Do you all remember back in the day when pretty much all birthday cakes were ordered from Costco and you had leftovers for like two weeks? 🎂

Sloan’s 7th birthday cake by Walmart.

Red Robin Birthday Dinner – We have had many, many birthday dinners at Red Robin and that tradition continued on Sunday night. We celebrated Sloan’s special day with burgers and fries at our local Spokane Valley restaurant and the food was excellent as usual. But you know what wasn’t the same as usual? The balloons! In honor of St. Patrick’s Day, the normally red party favors were green.

A few shots from Sloan’s Red Robin birthday dinner.

Mother Teresa – I recently finished a book titled Conversations With Mother Teresa. It is not a biography per se but more of a book that delves into the thoughts and philosophies of St. Mother Teresa. A lot of her insight is shared via conversations with the author, Italian journalist Renzo Allegri. Folks, to say that St. Mother Teresa was inspirational and faithful is to sell her shamefully short. The extreme way she cared for the “poorest of the poor” was saint-like in every respect you can imagine. As we are all called to be saints, I couldn’t recommend a better Holy Week book than this one.

“Conversations With Mother Teresa” should be required reading for everyone in the world.

Beating GPS – I would like to extend lots of gratitude to my friend Lindsi for allowing me to steal another one of her memes (I couldn’t resist). When it comes to GPS travel time, I am always amazed at how accurate it is. If my map app quotes me a time as I leave my driveway, I am taking that for truth and texting whoever I am visiting with that time. Although I do try to beat however many minutes the app says it will take, it doesn’t matter how many green lights I make, I usually always seem to arrive according to how long the app said it would take me.

Although this is a worthwhile goal, it isn’t always attainable.

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Hope everyone has a nice weekend. Palm Sunday and the beginning of Holy Week will soon be upon us so let’s be sure to get in the right frame of mind. Don’t Blink.