Habits

I am reading a book that proposes an interesting theory. The author expresses his view that extraordinary people separate themselves from average people via one thing: habits.

Habits are important but I don’t think they are defining.

He goes further by suggesting he can determine the quality and future of an individual just by learning their habits (before even meeting them). He even equates habits to character.

I don’t necessarily agree with the author. I think there are brilliant people who have downright terrible habits but still separate themselves from the status quo. Charlie Sheen, anyone?

Then there are the people who have mixed habits. Take me for example! I think I have some good habits such as daily exercise and prayer. On the other hand, I have some bad habits such as staying up too late and eating too much at dinner. Where does that put me? Well, one thing is abundantly clear: I am definitely not exceptional.

So I wholeheartedly disagree that habits signify the quality and character of a person. But I do agree with something else the author said: habits are important and they can be changed.

A grand opportunity to change habits presents itself during Lent. They say it takes a month to make something a habit and Lent provides that time plus a couple extra weeks for good measure. I truly believe this holy period of prayer, fasting, and almsgiving is fertile ground to cultivate habits that improve yourself and give glory to God. To go back to yesterday’s Lenten post, establishing a habit during this season can improve your reflection in the spiritual mirror.

Truly, the best Lenten intentions bring long-lasting change beyond Easter. As we journey with Jesus in the desert through the next 40 days, it might be advantageous to begin or refine a habit. Although I don’t think the successful establishment of a new habit will distinguish someone as better from others, I do believe it can improve ourselves while possibly having a positive impact on those around us. Don’t Blink.

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