Friendship and Donuts

I wanted to devote an entire blog post—not just Thursday Rundown treatment—to a man who has treated me and my family so well over the past nine years.

Read on for more details, but this is me holding my box of birthday donuts from Retro Donuts owner/friend Jon Fine.

Jon Fine came on my radar in 2015. That spring I shed light on a parent-led mutiny effort (it failed) to remove the football coach I played for at Mead High School. Jon, whose son had played in the football program, also opposed the parent steamroll and followed my posts. He provided me positive feedback and a friendship was born.

A year later, Jon would open Retro Donuts in north Spokane. I swear I could smell those delicacies all the way from South Carolina. About nine months after he opened the doors, Sidney and I visited the shop during a summer trip out west. Not only was it the first time we visited Retro Donuts but it was the first time I had the pleasure of meeting Jon face-to-face. He came right up to the counter, greeted us, and added some complimentary donuts to our order. Jon was even nicer in-person.

In future trips to Spokane, we would make it a tradition to stop at Retro. We wouldn’t tell Jon we were coming in, but the moment we walked through the doors it was as if he was expecting us. He would come right up to the counter, warmly welcome us, and catch up. We always left with some extra donuts in our box.

My kids with a box of Retro Donuts.

But my interaction with Jon wasn’t limited to our in-store vacation visits. After the Coach Carty saga, he continued to follow my blog, becoming a loyal reader. I could always depend on Jon for insightful and positive comments. In fact, perhaps nothing was more enlightening than when Mr. Fine cleared up the “donut vs. doughnut” debate I passionately wrote about. In an eloquent way that only a true donut-maker could convey, he explained that most donuts don’t contain “dough”—clearly leaving no doubt that the “donut” spelling is correct.

I mean, how do you argue with this response?

In 2020, Retro Donuts was no longer 3,000 miles away but rather 30 miles away. We moved from South Carolina to Spokane Valley and the world’s best donuts were now just a car ride away. Jon welcomed us “home” and our friendship continued. Although we don’t visit Retro as much as we would like, Jon has brought Retro to us…

A couple years ago when I returned to Hoopfest as a player, Jon sent me a box of donuts for the team. Although my teammates and I didn’t necessarily indulge right before our first game, we certainly had the happiest donut-fed young fans cheering us on.

My kids, niece, and nephew eating Retro Donuts at Hoopfest.

Then, just yesterday, my mom surprised me when she texted me a Retro Donuts box with a “happy birthday” message on it. Later that night, she brought the delicious gems out to me. The box was packed with 13 beautiful donuts, including four of my personal favorites – fritters! What an incredibly nice gesture by a really nice man.

What a generous (and delicious) birthday present. Thanks Jon Fine for the Retro Donuts!

I highly encourage my Spokane-area readers to try Retro Donuts. The donuts baked within those walls are creative, fresh, and delectable. Best in the region by far! But keep in mind you won’t just be making a great donut/breakfast decision, you will also be supporting an incredibly kind human. Thanks for everything, Jon. Don’t Blink.

High Dive Thursday Rundown

Have you walked outside in the early morning this week and felt it? By it, I mean the crispness in the air that is reminding us that autumn is on its way. Let’s take a look at tonight’s five topics…

House Blessing – Last night we had a special visitor as Fr. Jeff Lewis, our pastor at St. Mary Catholic Church in the Spokane Valley, came over for dinner. Well, the evening was about much more than just eating chicken bog with us. His primary reason for dropping by was to bless our house. He went to each room in our home and sprinkled it with holy water and applied sacramental oils. The house blessing is a way to protect our home from both internal and external forces while inviting the Holy Spirit into our residence to promote family life. You are the best, Fr. Jeff!

Fr. Jeff takes a photo with our family after he blessed our house.

Bishop Fleming With Pope Francis – This photo is everything. When I attended the University of Montana, the priest in charge of the Newman Center and pastor of the parish in the University District was Fr. Jeff Fleming. Since the many years after I graduated, we have kept touch via social media. I was ecstatic when Pope Francis appointed him as the Bishop of the Diocese of Great Falls-Billings last year. Recently, Bishop Fleming visited Rome for Bishops School and met with Pope Francis. I love how authentic and joyful this photo is. Please pray for Bishop Fleming as he continues his very important vocation.

Bishop Jeff Fleming greets Pope Francis in Rome. When I was in college, then-Fr. Jeff was the priest of the University of Montana Newman Center.

Diving Act – Our family visited the Spokane Interstate Fair last Friday and besides all the rides and food we enjoyed, something else stood out. We watched an extraordinary diving act presented by Milord Entertainment. The show was delivered via a police academy theme and we couldn’t believe some of the dives these performers were making. The most memorable moment was the grand finale when the emcee climbed up 80 feet and gracefully dove into the water tank below. We were amazed!

The Top Cop high dive show by Milord Entertainment at the Spokane Interstate Fair was awesome!

Donut vs. Doughnut Explanation – On Tuesday I wrote about the great “donut” vs. “doughnut” debate. I expressed my support for the former spelling and later that night I received some major firepower to back up my preference. Jon Fine is the owner of Retro Donuts in north Spokane, my favorite donut shop in the whole world. He gave a very technical and logical response about why our favorite morning treats should mostly be spelled as “donuts.”

I mean, how do you argue with this response?

Bad Lobster Chowder – Earlier this year, I mentioned I have only seen three movies more than once in the theater. “Jurassic Park” and “Rise of the Guardians” happen to be two of them. The third? Well, “Titanic” of course. Last night I learned an interesting tidbit from the filming of the movie. One evening the crew ordered some late-night lobster chowder but it didn’t exactly hit the spot. Someone had spiked it with PCP! Numerous people were hospitalized including director James Cameron. Those working on the movie didn’t allow the sabotage to sink their film—we all know that “Titanic” went on to become a box office smash.

James Cameron speaks with Leonardo DiCaprio and Kate Winslet. Look how young Leo is! (photo courtesy of @historyinmemes)

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That puts another Thursday Rundown in the books. A wedding weekend in Oregon awaits our family and perhaps I will have an experience or two to write about when I return. Take care, everyone. Don’t Blink.