Dolly Memories

It was a sad day yesterday when news broke that Dolly Parton had passed away at 80. From the coverage I have watched, she is being remembered not just for her talent but her generosity.

I have a few brief Dolly stories…

We were a Dolly Parton Imagination Library family that appreciated each month when a book arrived in our mailbox. Back in 2018 I praised the program and mentioned that the books we received from Dolly were some of Sloan’s favorites in her own personal library. We still have many of those books today.

Sloan “reading” the Dolly Parton Imagination book she received in the mail back in 2018 titled “Let’s Count.”

When Sidney and I visited Las Vegas in 2021, there was no doubt about it—the Dolly Parton slot machines were a highlight of our trip. Sid sought them out at whatever casino we entered and if she found a vacant Dolly machine I knew she was going to be there for a while. When Dolly was singing, Sidney was winning…I wish I heard just a little more singing.

Sid playing a Dolly Parton slot machine in Las Vegas in 2021. It was always a good sign when Dolly was singing!

And finally my favorite story came on Jan. 8, 2025. On this evening, I read Beau a biographical book titled “Dolly.” The pages were filled with kid-appropriate cartoonish illustrations but at the end of the book was an actual photo of Dolly Parton when she was a young child. The image was black and white and a little grainy. When Beau saw the old photo and used his reasoning skills, he asked a very sweet and innocent question.

“Is she in Heaven, daddy?”

Back in January 2025, Beau and I read “Dolly” (and “Everybody Tree” obviously 😂) and when we arrived at the end he asked a very cute question.

I told him “not yet” and explained that Dolly Parton was still alive.

Now that she has indeed passed, I don’t think Heaven is too far away for the lifelong Christian who made it her mission to serve others. Please pray for the repose of the soul of Dolly Parton. Don’t Blink.

Books I Can Read To My Daughter

From the time I was a baby to even after I could actually perform the skill myself, my parents read aloud to me (and my brother and sister) every night. This routine helped make me become not just a better reader as I went through school but an avid reader later in life. It also gave me great memories of a large quantity of children’s books my mom and dad introduced me to over my childhood. My siblings and I still fondly discuss our favorites.

Just like my parents did with me, Sidney and I have already started reading to our daughter. We have a modest selection of books we have purchased or been given and yesterday Sloan received her first book via Dolly Parton’s Imagination Library. However, there is something missing from our story repertoire.

This week, “The Little Engine That Could” arrived in mail for Sloan via the Dolly Parton Imagination Library.

I currently don’t have any books meant specifically for dads to read to their daughters. All of them seem to center on a mother figure or feature a son. I usually try my best to adjust. For example, if I read Sloan “Love You Forever” I will swap the female pronouns used for the mother out with male pronouns to represent me and I will trade the male pronouns used for the son with female pronouns to signify Sloan. I am not the best at doing this and beyond just the hassle of substituting words I would like to read a book that specifically addresses the father-daughter dynamic.

Now I know I could easily Google “father-daughter children’s books” and get a huge list of a million titles. However, I would rather get the best of the best from my readers who either are actual parents themselves and can relate or from daughters who had these type of books read to them growing up. I want personal, experience-based advice as opposed to search engine convenience.

Your suggestions will mean a lot. I have already told my family that if they dare get me a Father’s Day gift, I would like it to be a dad-daughter book I can read to Sloan. If you give me a recommendation, there is a chance I might be the owner of it next month.

But enough about Father’s Day!! We have the real holiday coming up this Sunday and I can’t wait to celebrate a certain person’s (wink wink) first Mother’s Day.

In the meantime though, I would still appreciate suggestions. Help us build our “Sloan Library” with some great stories her daddy can read to her. Don’t Blink.