My Dad: Time Well-Spent at 68

Today my dad celebrates his 69th birthday. As I said in my blog post I wrote for his 68th birthday, I value every second I have with him. This appreciation was established after living out-of-state for 15 years. After going several of those years only seeing him a couple times, I told myself I would never take our moments together for granted.

Thankfully, I saw my dad A LOT during his latest trip around the sun. In fact, I saw him so much that I can easily pull together a double-digit list of my favorite times with him over the past 365 days.

In chronological order, here are my 10 best moments with my incredible dad during his time as a 68-year-old.

Concerts Under the Pines – Nothing beats live music in a park on a summer evening. Shortly after my dad turned 68, I took the kids to Audubon Park where we met my parents and my sister’s family. We ate KFC and listened to a band during the latest “Concerts Under the Pines” event. My dad was in his element.

Hanging with my dad at the “Concerts Under the Pines” series at Audubon Park.

Mariners Trip – It was a special trip for the Reser boys as my dad, brother, and I ventured to Seattle for a Mariners game. We arrived in Bellevue on Saturday and attended mass and then went out to dinner. The next day we went to T-Mobile Park where we watched the Mariners defeat the Rangers. The weekend reminded us of the magical trips we took to Seattle decades prior.

A selfie with my dad and brother shortly after we found our seats behind home plate during our Mariners trip to Seattle in August 2025.

Birthday Fun – For my birthday, all I wanted was to hang at home and eat pizza. My dad made my wish come true as he brought over a couple of large pies from my favorite pizzeria after I arrived home from work. Although hanging with my wife, kids, and parents at home was pretty low-key, it was one of the best birthdays I could remember.

Just hanging with my dad and eating pizza during my 39th birthday party.

High School Football – On a cold November evening, I met my dad at University High School to watch the Titans play Walla Walla High School in a playoff game. We sipped hot chocolate and enjoyed watching my dad’s alma mater (Walla Walla) in our own little corner of the bleachers. We walked out of the stadium together talking about how happy we were that we went together.

My dad and I at University High School on a cold November evening to watch playoff high school football.

Turkey Bingo – There is nothing better than turkey bingo and it is even sweeter when you get to play it with those important to you. My dad (and mom) traveled all the way from north Spokane to spend time with us at the 2025 St. Mary turkey bingo event. My dad played a couple cards but of course his sole purpose for doing so was to pass his card off to either Sloan or Beau if he ever won.

My dad eating some popcorn and playing his cards at the 2025 St. Mary (Spokane Valley) turkey bingo event.

EWU vs. WSU Basketball – For the second straight year, my dad and I attended the 509 Classic together. During this latest time, I pulled my dad into the EWU Alumni pre-game rally. As an EWU alumnus himself (and also a WSU alumnus), he felt right at home. I had the opportunity to introduce him to President Shari McMahan and Athletics Director Tim Collins. After the rally we watched the game together as the Cougs beat the Eagles.

My dad and I pose with Swoop at an EWU Alumni rally prior to the 509 Classic basketball game between WSU and EWU.

Christmas Eve – Much in the same way that my 2025 birthday really stood out, our 2025 Christmas Eve did as well. My parents joined us for a beautiful Christmas Eve mass at St. Mary and then afterwards they come over to our house where I cooked a ham dinner. Everything that night was perfect and I felt grateful for the special time we had with my parents.

On Christmas Eve 2025, my parents came over and I cooked a ham dinner.

Pizza Parlor Feast – In January, the adult girls in the Reser family (Sid, mom, sister, niece) went to Las Vegas. That weekend they were gone, my dad invited all the guys and children to Market Street Pizza for dinner. While the kids played the arcade games, my dad held court as we ate pizza and drank beer. Although we missed them dearly, we managed just fine that evening without the ladies.

My dad holding down our table at Market Street Pizza in Jan. 2026.

Super Bowl Victory – My parents hosted a Super Bowl LX party and it was pretty epic as the Seattle Seahawks hoisted the Lombardi Trophy at the end of the night. But what made the evening even more interesting was the Super Bowl square board that everyone in our families (and beyond) participated in. With the fourth quarter winding down, there was a possibility that my dad could win the big bucks. We were all cheering for him as his luck held out and he won $200.

My dad is surrounded by my mom and his grandchildren after the Super Bowl. My dad is holding the poster board that contained our various numbers on the board of squares. My dad won the top prize.

Hoopfest Tip-Off Party – In April, I asked my dad to be “my date” at the Hoopfest tip-off party. He gladly accepted. I met him after work as we had a relaxing time at the event. We had some drinks, ate a really nice dinner, watched the NCAA men’s basketball championship game, and witnessed the reveal of the Hoopfest 2026 poster and game ball.

My dad was my date at the 2026 Hoopfest tip-off party.

Ron White – My dad was so excited to see his favorite comedian with his two sons! Not only did he pay for our Ron White tickets, he also bought us dinner at one of the Northern Quest restaurants before we moved to the resort’s outside venue to watch the show. How great it was to hear my dad laugh again and again. I hope he laughs like that during his time as a 69-year-old as well.

My dad and I inside Northern Quest shortly before hitting up the outdoor venue for the Ron White show.

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Happy birthday, dad! You lived it up as a 68-year-old and my expectation is that you don’t slow down one bit during your final year in your sixties. I couldn’t ask for a better father. Don’t Blink.

Summer 2025

It is the first day of September at the end of Labor Day weekend on the eve of the first day of school. I guess this means the party is over, right? Summer 2025 is just about complete and it seems like the only thing left is to write the blog post about it 😂.

The summer was highlighted by many activities and events but as you will see, it also brought much needed rest. As I have done in years past, I will break down the past few months into 12 themes. Thanks for reading…

Beau smiles with his cousins, Johnny and Mik, at the Concerts Under the Pines series at Audubon Park in Spokane. Going to this park on Thursday evenings for live music was one of the favorite things I did this summer with the kids. Read on for 12 themes from the past 2.5 months.

Relaxation – As you read the below nine themes, you might think how did they even get a minute to relax? Well, I assure you, we did. No matter how busy summer is, the break from school and activities changes the pace of life. Our weekday mornings were less stressful and our evenings were so refreshing. Instead of attending a full slate of after school/after work obligations, we came home and just hung out. We ate dinner, watched shows, and went to bed early. Awww…summer is so sweet.

Although we did a lot, we also had many relaxing summer nights where we didn’t do much.

Colorful Beginning – On a Saturday at the beginning of summer, Sloan and I found ourselves covered in colored powder. We completed the Color Me Rad race in Liberty Lake, Washington, and truly enjoyed the experience. Although it was on the cooler side that morning, Sloan was captivated by the camaraderie that exists when people come together for a race. It was a RAD way to start the summer.

A selfie after we crossed the Color Me Rad selfie. It was a great way to kick off the summer.

Fests – But when the work week ended and the weekend arrived, we forgot about relaxation. Different festivals and community events drew us to different parks and spots all around Spokane. From Kids Fest to Unity in the Community to Cops & Kids to Millwood Daze to farmers markets to many more (literally), we had a lot of fun interacting with the community.

A look at the foam madness at Harmon Park in Hillyard. This was one of the most unique experiences we had at a community event this summer.

Thanks Be To God – At the last day of school in June, Fr. Mike Kwiatkowski told the kids we can’t take a vacation from God during summer because he doesn’t take one from us. Did I do a good job turning Fr. Mike’s preaching into practice? Well, I could do a lot better. Still, during this summer some cool things did happen. Sloan and Beau attended Catholic Summer Camp. I worshipped at a sunrise mass with a small hiking group led by Fr. Jeff. Sid and I became godparents again. Fr. Mike Schmitz’s Bible In A Year podcast took us through the prophetic books of Isaiah, Ezekiel, Daniel, and more. And, we continued to attend mass at St. Mary throughout the summer while also visiting the parishes of St. Louise (Bellevue) and St. Pat’s (Walla Walla).

Me, Sidney, Fr. Jeff Lewis, Fidela, Neteyam, and Dylan pose for a photo in the St. Mary sanctuary after the baptism on July 6, 2025. Thanks be to God! (Photo courtesy of Dylan/Fidela/Family).

Water Is it even summer if you aren’t swimming? If you ask us, we would probably say “no.” From pools to water parks to splash pads to rivers, we had our swimsuits on a lot over the past few months. Sloan continued to be a fish while Beau’s anxiety around the water lessened. My favorite memory was racing Sloan down the water slides at Spokane County’s Northside Aquatics Center.

Rivers, pools, water parks…we did them all during Summer 2025.

Independence Day – It might have been just a day, but our Fourth of July receives its entire spot on our summer recap. We started the day in Coeur d’Alene at its American Heroes Parade. After an all-American lunch at one of the town’s drive-ins, we ended up at my parents’ house for their annual Independence Day celebration/cookout. From there, we went to Pavillion Park in Liberty Lake for the fireworks show.

Our 2025 Fourth of July was spectacular.

Picnics/Cookouts – Over the past few months, we never let a chance to eat outside slip by. Whether it was with friends, family, our Engaged Encounter group, or in a couple instances the general public, we enjoyed nature while eating meals. From pizza to fried chicken to hamburgers, it all tasted better in the great outdoors. Perhaps the most meaningful cookout of the summer was just this past week when we welcomed Sid’s Uncle Steve and Aunt Sharon to our home for burgers in our backyard.

This is a photo from one of our early summer picnics. We met my sister, Mik, and John in Browns Park and ate pizza.

Hoopfest – My family returned to the streets of downtown Spokane once again to volunteer at Hoopfest. I assumed my usual spot as court monitor while Sidney kept the books and Sloan/Beau helped keep score. It was another fulfilling experience that allowed us to give back while placing ourselves right in the middle of Spokane’s signature event.

My special 2025 Hoopfest crew.

Watching Sports – Nothing says “America” like baseball during the summer. When it came to Summer 2025, my family took this seriously. I took the kids to three Spokane Indians games where we had a blast at each one. What’s not to like about ballpark food, fireworks, running around the bases, and mascot fun? I also had the chance to go with my dad and brother to Seattle for a Mariners game. Don’t worry, we did branch out. In July, I took Sloan and Beau to a Spokane Velocity soccer match where they had just as much fun as they did at the baseball games.

It was Family Feast Night at the last Spokane Indians game we attended this summer! From the Indians to the Mariners to the Velocity, it was a lot of fun!

Weddings and Birthdays – In June, Sidney and I traveled to Brewster, Washington, to watch a couple we mentored—Katie and Tristan—enter into holy matrimony. Then, in August, the whole family drove north to Deer Park, Washington, where we attended the wedding of my niece, Zella, and her now-husband, Thomas. In July, we celebrated my nephew’s 8th birthday by attending his dog-themed party and then just a couple weeks ago we traveled to Walla Walla to attend the birthday bash of my cousin’s daughter who turned 1.

Weddings and birthdays played big roles during Summer 2025.

Parks Parks Parks – We lived it up at green spaces across the area this summer. Balfour, Browns, Discovery, Orchard, Q’emlin, Pavillion, and Riverfront are just a few of the parks where we climbed on the playgrounds and cooled down in the splash pads. We even watched outdoor movies in them! However, my fondest park memories from this summer took place at Audubon Park. It was here where we attended the “Concerts Under the Pines” series. On two different Thursdays in July, we enjoyed live music on perfect summer evenings.

How can an outdoor movie not be pleasant when the scenery is like this? This photo is of Beau sitting in his chair at Balfour Park on July 11, 2025.

Leavenworth Vacation – As you can tell, staying in Spokane all summer offers more than enough to do. However, we made a quick trip to Leavenworth for an end-of-summer vacation. The affordable, wholesome, and sunny adventure was just what we needed before preparing for the start of school.

This photo of my family epitomizes Leavenworth. We took a photo of us all at the exact same place last year and if we return again we will make sure to take another one,

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When summer ends in the Inland Northwest, we don’t get too upset. Autumn is gorgeous in this area of the country and with an exciting new school year on the horizon we are ready to transition. However, that’s not to say that we aren’t a little sad to see Summer 2025 pass by. However, In the words of a middle school cliché, we won’t cry because it is over but we will smile because it happened. Don’t Blink.

North to Baltimore We Go

After over three months in the South it is time to go north…for a couple days at least.

In less than two hours, Sidney and I will be on our way to Baltimore, Maryland, for a weekend of fun and baseball. Weather permitting, we will watch the Baltimore Orioles and Seattle Mariners square off against each other in Camden Yards on Saturday night and then again on Sunday afternoon. As a lifelong Mariners fan this is a real treat for me. Believe it or not, I have never seen the team play in person besides at Safeco Field or the Kingdome. To see them on the road will be fun. Sidney and I will both be sporting Mariners gear so hopefully we get treated decently by the locals.

Our tickets for tomorrow's Baltimore Orioles vs. Seattle Mariners game.

Our tickets for tomorrow’s Baltimore Orioles vs. Seattle Mariners game.

As you noticed I did say “weather permitting” above. Forecasts that started early in the week and ran through even as late as yesterday had Saturday night and Sunday tagged for lots of rain. Traveling almost 500 miles only to see the games get rained out would be less than ideal. Thankfully as of today the forecast has cleared a little bit and by first pitch tomorrow there should be no rain. Please cross your fingers.

Besides the baseball we hope to experience the city as much as possible. I have never visited Baltimore before and can’t wait to check out another new city. From what others have told me I know two things: 1. I need to walk around the Inner Harbor because it is really cool. 2. I need to watch over Sidney and myself because it is a dangerous and sketchy town.

Here is the travel plan: We will set out at 5 p.m. today. We will drive until we get to Fredricksburg, Virginia, where we will spend the night. Early tomorrow morning we will travel the remaining two hours or so to Baltimore and check into our downtown hotel. Early Sunday evening after the second baseball game concludes we will travel the full eight hours from Baltimore back to Myrtle Beach.

If you care to do so, follow me on Twitter and Instagram (@brentreser for both services) for updates on our trip. There will be no blog post on Sunday but I will provide a recap on Monday. Have a great weekend everyone and GO MARINERS! Don’t Blink.