A Busy 2025 Holiday Break

“The party’s over.”

That’s the expression that Sid’s dad would always use when the Mathis girls returned to school after summer break. I hope he doesn’t mind me using it in a slightly different—but still very similar—context.

Today Sloan and Beau returned to St. Mary after 16 days out of school. They adjusted decently but probably not as seamlessly as me. I will write more about my transition tomorrow but tonight’s post is to reflect on another awesome Christmas break.

We packed in a TON from the moment the kids were released from school until the eve of their return. Seriously. The Friday evening of their release we went on a Christmas light tour and just last night we were at a birthday party. And in between all of that we kept busy—perhaps too busy. As per usual, I wanted to share 10 highlights from our time celebrating the holidays.

Reason For The Season – It is only appropriate to begin with the most important way we spent time over the past couple weeks. From Christmas Eve Mass to the Feast of the Holy Family to the Solemnity of Mary (Mother of God) to the Epiphany, we had plenty of opportunities to give thanks to God for the Incarnation.

During the break, we had multiple opportunities to worship at the holy mass. This photo is from Christmas Eve mass at St. Mary (Spokane Valley).

Sleepover! – If you ask Sloan and Beau the highlight of their break, they wouldn’t hesitate to tell you it was the sleepover we hosted for their cousins, Mik and John. Those four have a special relationship and to be honest, Sid and I had a lot of fun having them over as well. They played with Christmas gifts, ate pizza, watched movies, and splurged on an ice cream sundae bar.

Sloan, Beau, John, and Mik enjoy a sundae bar during their sleepover at our house.

Dave & Buster’s – At the beginning of break, I took the kids to Spokane’s brand new Dave & Buster’s. I purchased a play card that gave them unlimited credits for 90 minutes. Sloan and Beau actually got along well as they switched the card back and forth as they played all the games they desired. I was even able to sneak the card from the kids a couple times to play some of the classics while I sipped on $5 beers.

Playing at Dave & Buster’s was actually a lot more fun than what I remembered.

Bowling – When I asked Sloan and Beau at the beginning of break what they wanted to do most, they replied with bowling. Okay, easy enough. On Christmas Eve Eve we went to Players & Spectators for a quick game. Although we did use bumpers, Beau showed progress from last time as he could roll the ball down the lane himself without a ball ramp.

I could have used a photo of Beau throwing the ball down the lane but how could I pass on Sloan’s latest 6-7 reference? The kids had fun bowling at Players & Spectators in the Spokane Valley.

Building With Legos – The item at the top of the 2025 Christmas lists of both Sloan and Beau was Lego sets. They each received a couple and put them together over break. I enjoyed helping Beau build a space shuttle while Sloan needed no help whatsoever putting together complex designs. These build sessions produced some much-needed peaceful chunks of time around our house.

Sloan and Beau both worked a lot with Legos over break as they each received multiple sets for Christmas. This is Sloan during the beginning stages of one of her creations.

Dinner Out – We were fortunate enough to eat dinner at a couple restaurants over break because who doesn’t love eating out, right? The most memorable meal was eating at Outback, my wife’s favorite restaurant, the Saturday after Christmas. We also ate hamburgers at Red Robin with my parents and my sister’s family. For whatever reason, eating at a casual dining chain just seems more special when the restaurants are festively decorated and a limited edition holiday menu is offered.

During the holiday season we splurged by going out more than what we usually do. This is Sloan and Beau at Outback.

State’s Largest Gingerbread House – The Centennial Hotel in downtown Spokane was home to the largest gingerbread house in the state of Washington this past month. I took the kids to catch a glimpse of the structure built from 4,000 pounds of gingerbread and 1,000 pounds of flour.

We visited the state’s largest gingerbread house at the Centennial Hotel in downtown Spokane.

Going For A Ride – I made good on a promise to Beau to let him ride the animal go-carts at the Spokane Valley Mall. The adventure even interested his sister who decided to join us even though she could have stayed home. Both kids had a blast cruising on their carts as mall patrons gave glances of delight mixed with annoyance.

The kids had a lot of fun (and drew a lot of attention to themselves) riding these animal go-carts around the Spokane Valley Mall.

The Library – The best things in life are free. We made a couple trips to the Spokane Public Central Library so the kids could climb on the play structures, mess around on the computers, admire the views of the Spokane Falls, and…read.

Beau and Sloan play on the computers at the Spokane Public Central Library.

The “L” Stores – The library wasn’t the only place we visited over break that started with “L.” At Sloan’s urging, we checked out Lush, a handmade cosmetics store and then balanced it out with a visit to the Lego Store. This combination proved so satisfying that we repeated it a couple days later when we visited both places with Mik and John.

Sloan, Beau, and their cousins were given a special demonstration at Lush in downtown Spokane.

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It was another memorable break, indeed. I missed my kids at work today but was satisfied with the time we spent together. I also counted my lucky stars that I have a job that allows me to take time off during the holidays to be with my family. Already looking forward to next year! Don’t Blink.

Beau’s Benchmark: Reading in 2025

The Reser Reading Regimen looked a little different in 2025. When 2024 concluded, Sloan was released to read on her own. She was no longer bound to the two-story-per-night structure she thrived at for multiple years. Instead of sitting at my side on the couch, she curled up in her bed and explored chapter books such as Harry Potter and the Boxcar Children.

However, while my maturing daughter surrendered her seat on the right side of the couch, my little boy remained on the left. But that wasn’t the only change.

Not only did our reading crew get smaller but our completed book output did as well. In 2025, Beau and I read 285 books. We were a far cry from the 600 books we read as a family in 2024. To contextualize it even more on an apples to apples level, we fell well short of the 500 books Sloan read during her kindergarten year.

Beau holds the 284th and 285th books he read in 2025. We read these final books of the year at the Spokane Public Library (Central branch) in downtown Spokane.

So what gave in 2025? Well, a couple things. For starters, the adage that the attention span of boys is less than girls is no joke. Reading two books to Beau a night proved difficult when many times he would be dancing around the living room before we even made it through the first one. During some of the more manic evenings, we stopped after the initial story. But the real game changer came when Beau started kindergarten. Sid and I were not prepared for the amount of homework our 5-year-old son was assigned. By the time we finished his nightly worksheets, name-writing exercises, and sight word practice none of us—Beau included—had the stamina/patience for a book.

In 2025, we had many nights when we just read a single book. Attention spans of 5-year-old boys can be short.

For someone like me who thrives with goals and improvement, our final book total for 2025 is a little disappointing. At the same time, I need to give Beau and myself a little grace. Believe it or not, some perspective goes a long way. The good things from last year’s reading experience include…

A photo of me reading to Beau and his friends, Noble and Aria, in 2025.

Many “library dates” at the county and city branches. Beau and I sustained our reading supply by going to the library and checking out books. Besides just choosing books, the library was a place where Beau could do crafts, build on the Lego table, and play with other kids. For me, I was able to simultaneously pick out books for my own reading.

Plenty of quality time for the two of us. Although there were nights when Beau was off the rails, we also enjoyed many other evenings when Beau was either completely engaged or perfectly worn out from the day’s activities. During those instances when Beau sat/laid on me at perfect attention, I relished every moment.

Beau learned to read…to an extent! Since starting kindergarten, Beau’s teacher has done a masterful job teaching him the basics. By the time October arrived, Beau was helping me read books as he sounded out a lot of the words (it was so cute!).

We had many library dates in 2025. This is a photo of Beau relaxing on one of the chairs at the Spokane Valley County Library after reading a couple books.

With the arrival of 2026, I have two goals for Beau. Now that he has his own personal benchmark (285 books), I want him to surpass it. A goal of 300 books seems realistic. For the second goal, I want to see him continue to progress when it comes to reading. Hopefully by this time next year, he will be reading picture books with little assistance from me. In the meantime, if you have any book suggestions (for Beau or me), please let us know! Don’t Blink.

Becoming Routine: Our 2025 #1SE Video

CLICK HERE TO WATCH THE 2025 RESER FAMILY #1SE VIDEO

There was absolutely no debate in 2025. After completing the 1-Second Everyday (#1SE) project in 2023, I wrestled with doing it again in 2024. That inaugural year entailed a significant investment with self-imposed stress and expectations. Could I produce another worthy piece in 2024? With Sid’s encouragement, I moved forward with a second video and found the process to be easier and calmer with an ending project that was just as beautiful as the first. Thus, when 2025 arrived, I didn’t think twice about embarking on our family’s third #1SE video.

I didn’t think twice about creating a #1SE video in 2025…I just went for it. This is our YouTube thumbnail for the video.

The 2025 Reser Family #ISE video was once again a labor of love and thoughtfulness. Although capturing a one-second video every day is firmly ingrained in my daily routine, securing the right clip still takes creativity, thought, and a little planning.

Thankfully, the content aspect of the project is really the only thing I need to worry about when creating my family’s #1SE video. The #1SE app itself continues to be rock solid. It keeps everything organized and offers the music, transitions, and tools needed to make a memorable final product.

I always “premiere” our family’s #1SE video on our living room TV for Sidney, Sloan, and Beau. It is always a very special moment.

With all that said, I wouldn’t necessarily say our 2025 video is my best work. It isn’t that I lacked opportunities—we did more cool things this year than 2023 and 2024 combined. Also, it definitely wasn’t the subjects because my stars—Sid, Sloan, and Beau—were as stunning as ever. Perhaps it was just my own critical eye now that I am a #1SE veteran. You see, I thought the clip video quality in some instances was subpar and I also feel like I relied on live photos a bit too much. Additionally, I must have thought highly of Sloan’s soccer skills because clips of her kicking the ball became a bit repetitive.

But I do think these thoughts of second-guessing will dissipate soon. After being so thick in the final stages of the editing process, you become cynical. However, like I said, in a couple weeks I think the critical feelings will lessen in intensity and I will place our 2025 #1SE video on the same pedestal as our 2023 and 2024 versions.

After I show the #1SE video to my wife and kids, I then drive over to my parents’ house and show them on their TV.

Which leads me to your #1SE pedestal. Is it still empty? If so, here is my yearly plea: Do your own 1-Second Everyday video this year. As I mentioned above, the app handles most of the work. You just film the clips and #1SE will do the rest. In my opinion, completing a project like this is the ultimate New Year’s resolution/goal. Not only does it build discipline and promote creativity but it results in such a cool output. It improves yourself while at the same time it creates an endearing and everlasting gift for your loved ones.

I highly recommend creating a video using the I Second Everyday app.

I know it takes a spark and some motivation to get started. I watched my friend publish her #1SE video with amazement and envy for several years before I decided to challenge myself in 2023. I am so glad I did. I know Jennifer delighted in inspiring me (even joking that #1SE should give her a commission) and I can now relate. Multiple people created their own videos in 2025 based on viewing my videos in 2023 and 2024. Watching their final products over the past few days has been so fulfilling. If you decide to create your own #1SE in 2026, please don’t hesitate to reach out to me with questions. I would be more than happy to assist and support you throughout the year.

When you mash my family’s #1SE videos together (2023-25), I now have approximately 19 minutes chronicling 1,095 days. What a gift! To have three years of my family documented in such a rich way is simply invaluable. And, just like last year, I kicked off 2026 by jumping headfirst into creating a new video. I hope you will be in it. Don’t Blink.

The Extraordinary

Last week, my family found ourselves as visitors at a parish on the South Hill.

Although it was our first time attending mass at St. Peter Catholic Church, the priest was an old friend. When it came time to deliver his homily, Fr. Kevin Oiland led with a quote that is still top-of-mind for me.

We attended mass at St. Peter Catholic Church (Spokane South Hill) on Dec. 27 and our family friend, Fr. Kevin Oiland, delivered a homily about family that really hit home.

“The most extraordinary thing in the world is an ordinary man and an ordinary woman and their ordinary children.”

The quote, uttered by Christian apologist G.K. Chesterton, reverberated my ears with beauty and purpose. It made me take notice that my little clan of four might be more significant than originally thought. Perhaps our unit comprised of two parents who work regular jobs and two children who go to normal school and do normal activities could offer more than meets the eye.

A photo of my family with Fr. Kevin Oiland. It was a blessing to hear our friend preach recently. 

The first Sunday after Christmas is always reserved for the Feast of the Holy Family. On this day we take special care to reflect on the familial unit of Jesus, Mary, and Joseph. While reflecting, it is ideal to challenge oneself to emulate the sacred trio and to incorporate their own holiness into our own families. 

The joke is that Joseph must have had it tough being the only sinner in the family. But I guess that allows me to relate to Jesus’ foster dad even more given my status as a serial sinner. However, Joseph’s other traits provide me with the example and inspiration needed to be the best father possible. His words were few (in fact, he doesn’t speak once in the bible) but his actions were powerful. He provided for his family and listened to God. When you boil it down, that pretty much gets to the crux of fatherhood, right?

As we begin 2026, perhaps there isn’t a better resolution than to embrace the holiness that God has intended and expected for families. And like G.K. Chesterton reminds us, this holiness isn’t necessarily reflected by grandiose gestures or trailblazing pursuits. Rather, it is simply an ordinary man and an ordinary woman and their ordinary children doing ordinary things in the name of Christ. Don’t Blink.

Bracing For 2026

It was the first time such a thought ever entered my mind: The other day, I was thinking about the upcoming new year when the realization came to my mind that, hey, 2026 is a pretty big number.

What do I mean by that? Well, I mean that we are now in the latter 2020s and that a lot of time has passed since I was born at the end of 1986. When I first became cognizant of calendar years in probably 1993 or 1994, I bet I couldn’t even conceive of a world in 2026.

So I guess the point is that I never contextualized a year in such terms until 2026 appeared on the horizon.

Ready or not, regardless of my internal awe, 2026 is here!

Sloan and Beau are ready for 2026!

As I write every January, even-numbered calendar years always seem to bring more change and disruption to my family. On the other side of the coin, odd-numbered calendar years have always proven to bring more stability and status quo to the Reser household.

Well, we all know the parity classification of 2026 and it definitely isn’t odd.

So we shall see what this latest year brings. If the Reser trend holds true and change is in store, we will be ready—and cross our fingers that it is positive.

I can only guess how many teeth will be lost, how many sporting events will be played, and how many birthday parties will be attended. Will airplanes, achievements, and special announcements be part of 2026? Who will enter our lives for the first time? Will we visit anywhere new over the next 365 days? These are all questions I will attempt to answer in my end-of-year December blog post.

But excuse me, I am getting way too ahead of myself. Did I really just mention December? I should do myself a favor by first focusing on January. By taking it one day at a time with my family by my side and Jesus leading the way, I am optimistic about the potential of 2026. May you have a healthy, safe, and prosperous year. Don’t Blink.